Sketchy behavior?

If you get a room with a connecting door to another room, please do not ask me where I'm from, what other hotels I've been to, if I know any other providers in the area, and keep pushing back the appt time...I will leave and will not feel I need to explain or apologize. Any thoughts are appreciated--I don't offend easily
Too many questions. Even if someone is nervous there are better topics for small talk
to many red flags unless this is someone you have already seen, this is when its time to go. use your gut feeling, if it says go then get out fast ,there are plenty of normal people to see.
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If you get a room with a connecting door to another room, please do not ask me where I'm from, what other hotels I've been to, if I know any other providers in the area, and keep pushing back the appt time...I will leave and will not feel I need to explain or apologize. Any thoughts are appreciated--I don't offend easily Originally Posted by PhillyChik
Connecting doors are a red flag. The rest you brought up is also. You should have just told him you wanted to check and make sure your armed driver was ok..
Just have to trust your gut.
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Like Blad said, connecting door to another room is a big red flag. It has a potential to be a set up. Why get a room with connecting door in the first place? It's not safe for both.
Too many questions is also a bad sign. If its a set up, he will engage you with small talk to get you comfortable, then he will keep asking questions to get you off guard and then the key question will pop up to get you incriminate yourself by admitting that you're their to exchange sex for money. The question could be like: " so for 200 we can fuck, right? " and if you answer "yes" or "sure" they got you. That's when they rush in through that connecting door.
If you find yourself in that situation, just say that you're only there to have fun and just come up with some kind of excuse to leave.
If I notice a connecting door when I enter the room, I'll leave immediately. After using the bathroom, I'll say that I left my glasses in the car and I need to go get it.
Yeah, I block immediately after any mention of rate or activities. I've read they can still pursue even after just showing up. If I'm paranoid, there is usually a reason from my experience. Just not worth it--better to save pennies.
I probably ticked off this client, room charge wasted, but if they are legit they should be thankful he is dealing with mindful providers. An investigation could implicate him as well one day. Sorry about the loss on the room--but if you can't afford to lose something, you shouldn't be buying it, right? First time ever I left that way after arriving inside. Anyway, it's a necessary evil I suppose.
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Check your PM Marissa
Better safe and free than sorry. There are enough pissed off people in the world that one more won't matter much.
You made the right call to get out of there Marissa. Sounded very sketchy. Stay safe around Ttown.
Would be nice if more providers visited around these parts but it is a very risk town to hobby in.
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  • jwin
  • 03-08-2014, 07:50 PM
Like Blad said, connecting door to another room is a big red flag. It has a potential to be a set up. Why get a room with connecting door in the first place? It's not safe for both.
Too many questions is also a bad sign. If its a set up, he will engage you with small talk to get you comfortable, then he will keep asking questions to get you off guard and then the key question will pop up to get you incriminate yourself by admitting that you're their to exchange sex for money. The question could be like: " so for 200 we can fuck, right? " and if you answer "yes" or "sure" they got you. That's when they rush in through that connecting door.
If you find yourself in that situation, just say that you're only there to have fun and just come up with some kind of excuse to leave.
If I notice a connecting door when I enter the room, I'll leave immediately. After using the bathroom, I'll say that I left my glasses in the car and I need to go get it. Originally Posted by soccer2010
I think its only a problem if you're in a cheap hotel that's known to have a lot of bp providers or robberies. Several of the suites I have stayed have connection doors and I haven't had any issues with providers.
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I probably ticked off this client, room charge wasted, but if they are legit they should be thankful he is dealing with mindful providers. An investigation could implicate him as well one day. Sorry about the loss on the room--but if you can't afford to lose something, you shouldn't be buying it, right? First time ever I left that way after arriving inside. Anyway, it's a necessary evil I suppose. Originally Posted by PhillyChik
I think you did the right thing! Maybe nervousness, maybe setup.. Always better safe then sorry.
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If you get a room with a connecting door to another room, please do not ask me where I'm from, what other hotels I've been to, if I know any other providers in the area, and keep pushing back the appt time...I will leave and will not feel I need to explain or apologize. Any thoughts are appreciated--I don't offend easily Originally Posted by PhillyChik
Especially with the issues you've seen in your area with stings.. good you protected yourself