If you feel you're competing on rates, then perhaps you aren't conveying your image to the clients you are targeting. If you want clients who want to see you because of who you are, the quality of service you provide, the level of discretion you insist upon and other things that are more important to those clients than your rate, I can capture your image with words that will make you stand out.
If you feel that you are not getting the message across with your p411/datecheck/etc. profile (or with your ads, if you advertise), contact me by pm through ECCIE. What I write will be yours to use anyway you wish. My services are limited to three providers per month and I work for a fee only - no barter. You must work in the DFW area and have a professional attitude (i.e., be able to live up to the image you want to create).