A word from a long time hobbist to newbie hobbists. Stick with the sites like ECCIE and avoid places like backpage and snapchat hookups. I wish I had a portion of the bucks back from the scams I have fallen for over the years. I also would like 5 min in a room with the scammers that have ripped me off. Hell I even had one come thru facebook. Don't let the lil head do the thinking for the big head. Stick with the ladies you find on reputable sites like ECCIE. They know if they scam here then there will be alerts out on them and they will have to try to live off backpage and the such. So, with that said go forth and spread the word and have fun.