whats wrong with safe sex??

I can't even count on my fingers the times I have been rejected because I use protection in all areas. What is it that men don't find disgusting about bbbj when possible that guy before you could of had herpes ect . Then possibly u get it and take it home to your wife. You can't trust that every female is safe and I don't trust every man is safe for the fact I don't know what girl u were with before me and if she was clean. I'm used to it by now being told no thank u r won't be seen again because the guy likes it bare. Sorry that's not me but so badly want to hear ur point of view r a females point of view. Also I'm not judging r anything. People can have sex how they choose. Thank you

I agree I feel the same exact way that you do I get so many guys that say your not gonna last because you offer CBJ.

Just a matter of preference really you as a provider have the right to be as safe as you’d like however if there are clients that would prefer to have BBBJ over a CBJ you really can’t be upset with them for being honest with you and choosing a SP that will offer what they in fact are looking for, as they should be just as content with your wishes of not providing BBBJ.

For the record IMO there is no such thing as safe sex you are at risk of contracting a STD EVEN COVERED. Only safe sex is NO SEX! That said you have a much greater risk of contracting something with intercourse over oral however again even covered you are taking a risk……


This argument has been made so many times I lost track LOL

Its understood that there's a risk it contracting std whether its intercourse or oral sex but at least with protection percentage of contracting something is lowered

Some GFE's do not like to kiss but will give a bbbj, this makes them a light GFE, vs. a FULL GFE will perform as well as receive.

Setty

Light GFE is bullshit.......

Your either GFE or not. There is no in between.

I notice handjobs and massage are in your reviews. Do you wear gloves during these services as well? Do clients have to wear gloves if they touch you.

The questions is for the ladies that only to CBJ, do you allow daty? Yes! So the risk factor is still there right?

Nothing is wrong with safe sex. But as stated above, it's only safer sex at best. What is wrong is misinformation.

If it's Herpes simplex you're concerned about, please know that it is transmitted by skin to skin contact. Though the mouth and genitals are the most popular body areas, it can be anywhere and be transmitted to anywhere there is contact.

Always take a good look at any area that you are going to touch on another person. Be sure it's clean and without sores, etc. Quite frankly, one of the easiest ways to inspect a penis is to tease it and give a little lite HJ...then if it looks good from there a lite BBBJ. If it passes inspection and "the smell test" then proceed onward to other activities and eventually CFS. But slapping on a condom without checking out the merchandise is an invitation for herpes and/or HPV passed from between the base of the penis and a wet vagina.

If I'm not willing to kiss a guy (face or penis), then I don't want him inside me, covered or not.

You all need to do what makes you feel safe and comfortable, but you also need to be well informed about where the risks actually are.

The questions is for the ladies that only to CBJ, do you allow daty? Yes! So the risk factor is still there right? Originally Posted by Richard Fitzwell

I don't know the actual stat, but the risk of spreading Herpes through DATY is many many times higher than anyone getting herpes from BBBJ.

The risk of a guy getting anything from a girl giving BBBJ, as long as she does not have an active cold sore on her mouth, that is usually quite visible is almost nil. So, of course guys are going to prefer BBBJs. Why wouldn't they?

Safe sex good thing in the business.Bareback seem to be big request from hobbyists.

There are risks to this lifestyle, CBJ prevents basically the easily treatable stuff.

Anyone who thinks inspection of the goods or a condom will stop herpesvirus infection simply isn't aware of the facts.

http://www.hhs.gov/opa/reproductive-health/stis/herpes/

Genital herpes is transmitted through direct skin-to-skin contact during vaginal, anal, and oral sex. Transmission can happen even if genitals only touch infected skin, and no penetration occurs. Oral herpes is most often contracted through kissing someone with a cold sore.

Herpes can be transmitted even with no symptoms present.

Also, 1 in 6 people have genital herpes and the CDC estimates that 80% of them are unaware. Condoms only mitigate approximately 30% of the risk. And sex workers and those who frequent them are in a higher risk group so infection rates are likely to be higher than in the general population.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/STDFac...s-detailed.htm

HSV-2 infection is more common among women than among men (20.9% versus 11.5% in 14 to 49 year olds). Infection is more easily transmitted from men to women than from women to men. HSV-2 infection is more common among non-Hispanic blacks (39.2%) than among non-Hispanic whites (12.3%) or Mexican Americans (10.1%). This disparity remains even among persons with similar numbers of lifetime sexual partners. For example, among persons with 2–4 lifetime sexual partners, HSV-2 is still more prevalent among non-Hispanic blacks (34.3%) than among non-Hispanic whites (9.1%) or Mexican Americans (13%). Most infected persons are unaware of their infection. In the United States, an estimated 81.1% of 14–49 year olds infected with HSV-2 have never received a clinical diagnosis

HSV-1 and HSV-2 can also be shed from skin that looks normal. In persons with asymptomatic HSV-2 infections, genital HSV shedding occurs on 10% of days, and on most of those days the person has no signs or symptoms. [4] Generally, a person can only get HSV-2 infection during sexual contact with someone who has a genital HSV-2 infection. Transmission most commonly occurs from an infected partner who does not have a visible sore and may not know that he or she is infected

Chart with list of STD risks for various activities
http://www.sfcityclinic.org/stdbasics/stdchart.asp

Hobbyists and escorts stay tested regular.I do.

Yep getting tested regularly on both sides is the best way to stop the spread of any STD

Also inspecting the goods doesn't hurt as long as you don't get a false sense of security because of it.

Yep getting tested regularly on both sides is the best way to stop the spread of any STD

Also inspecting the goods doesn't hurt as long as you don't get a false sense of security because of it. Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

Of course you shouldn't assume anything is safe because it looks safe. However, you should absolutely abort the mission if it doesnt look safe.