Stripper Rant Coming….

Dirkdiggler41's Avatar
So if you guys are like me and get select strippers number and chat them up for activities OTC, then perhaps you can relate to this….
Has happened more than once but latest was today so had me in a mood. Need to vent.
Talking about The stripper who, having done nothing for you yet OTC, asks and in some cases expects you to send her money for nothing. Wtf. Hey babe, can you send me a 100 type of bullshit. Now I guess they do this because there are some dumb MFers that are gullible enough to do this. If you are, please stop. You giving these hoes money for nothing and they think they can just try it on anybody. If they hit one out of 10 still worth it to ask for them so don’t be the 1 idiot so the other 9 of us have to listen to this nonsense.
You reply back to a ho acting like this should be similar to mine.
When you saw me in the club or even in the the picture I sent you did I have sucker written on my forehead?
No I mean you don’t have to do it I was just asking, no big deal if you don’t want to she replies.
I explain to her that’s it’s no coincidence that those with money often do not waste money and certainly don’t give it away for free.
Money is earned I ended with.
No reply back and prob the last I hear from her. Good riddins. Plenty of fish in the sea.
Don’t be the 1!
Chung Tran's Avatar
Good post, but the one who is the 1 doesn't realize he's not #1 in the Stripper's life. He will be a Doofus until the return of the Christ, and you will know him by the ''666'' planted on his forehead.
  • KFB
  • 08-04-2023, 06:19 AM
A version of "I'm not that guy, you know what to do if you need help from me" would be a way better response. Chalk it up to the game, no need to get in your feelings.
luv2luv's Avatar
That’s the same thing as deposits to “confirm an appointment “. I don’t care how tempting it is, I’ve got just one hard… iron clad… never violate…ain’t gonna do it… rule. I never, but never, send money to a provider/stripper/escort/sugarbaby/etc I have no relationship with. It’s just plain stupid. (Kinda like “I don’t take cash. I only take ….”)
No kidding, dudes. Just say no.
BoneHome777's Avatar
Had a young Cuban in FW ask me for $100 to get her son a birthday cake. She asked hours after we met at her house for some playtime that morning. I said GTFOH! She had nerves to reply " Why not". I said the day you give up free ass is the day I slightly consider a request like this.
I did give this same cute hispanic a ride to the convenience store down the street. it was walking distance but she asked if I could take her. she went inside to get snacks and I took her back. I didn't mind that but not giving no money
Chung Tran's Avatar
Had a young Cuban in FW ask me for $100 to get her son a birthday cake. Originally Posted by BoneHome777
''No, Bitch! Let me know when it's your Birthday, and I'll give you some Birthday Cock!''

I did give this same cute hispanic a ride to the convenience store down the street. it was walking distance but she asked if I could take her. she went inside to get snacks and I took her back. I didn't mind that but not giving no money Originally Posted by nfhs04
I endorse this. You did something nice for a cute girl, didn't take much time, and there's always that .0004% chance she would spontaneously unzip your jeans, and commence a blow job.
How about a simple, polite, "Sorry, I can't help you. Perhaps if we were better friends outside the club, I might be able to help you when you need it."

If your goal is to get her OTC, being rude or an ass sure won't help.
  • rcusa
  • 08-04-2023, 11:11 AM
oldbutstillgoing has a good perspective. I sometimes get digits for OTC, but occasionally get their number because we may communicate as acquaintances. There have been such acquaintances who became friends. That's pleasant.
But even for the ones I'd be hoping to get OTC, I wouldn't burn the bridge with a harsh reply to their stupid request...I'd decline politely enough that the OTC door may remain open.


The best encounters (ITC or OTC) have the temporary illusion of intimacy. That illusion is broken if it's too "mercenary." And certainly broken if its "adversarial."
Chung Tran's Avatar
How about a simple, polite, "Sorry, I can't help you. Perhaps if we were better friends outside the club, I might be able to help you when you need it."

If your goal is to get her OTC, being rude or an ass sure won't help. Originally Posted by oldbutstillgoing
oldbutstillgoing has a good perspective. Originally Posted by rcusa
I disagree, but that's me. From my POV, you show yourself Greedy from the moment we met, practically, and it's bye bye. Whatever OTC interest I had is gone. I have no interest in ''nurturing'' her with a benign comeback, hoping her attitude cools and I can pay her for pussy down the road.

It gives a needy vibe, too. And encourages more greed without consequences.
  • rcusa
  • 08-04-2023, 02:20 PM
I understand, Chung Tran. If you have no interest in her, then burning that bridge is not a concern.



A thought: all strippers are probably "greedy," but that doesn't mean I want to slam the door on all of them. It is possible they can accept a more polite "No, I won't send you money," and they can still be down for whatever I wanted their number for in the first place. If I slam them immediately, that possibility will never exist.
Dirkdiggler41's Avatar
Again too many fish in the sea. Supply demand. If one girl acts like that she’s shown her cards and I fold the hand. There’s always another hand to be dealt. You keep betting with your J high hand into the pot if you want hoping you hit the straight flush on the river. The smart players know when you toss a shitty hand. Facts
  • mb60
  • 08-04-2023, 09:38 PM
Whenever I'm seeing someone otc and get text like that. My response is around a small donation for a two minute video. Amazing what these young ladies will do on camera.
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