Orientation

We've all heard the phrase, 'gay for pay'. Many men who star in gay porns claim to be straight in their "real lives."

This is entirely debatable, because imo, if you get aroused and erect at something, it probably means you're into it, but nonetheless, I think it poses an interesting idea.


Or, female providers who would never be w a woman in their rw lives will do a doubles if being compensated.


It got me to thinking if the reverse is true in any cases? "Straight for pay."

Last year I visited a male provider who advertises/works solely as gay and also told me that he has a bf in his rw life. Yet, he was obviously bi enough to visit with me and get the job done.


It makes me wonder if there are any female providers out there who only date women in the rw lives, but will still entertain male clients?

Ladies, I can understand if for privacy reasons you would not want to disclose such info, but anyone who is open to sharing, would be much appreciated.


(FYI, as an olive branch, I will share mine first. I consider myself pansexual rather than just bi, bc my interests are not solely limited to those who identify as their assigned genders. I have been lucky enough to get to indulge in my tastes for both men and women during my tenure in the hobby.)

Sexuality covers a broad spectrum. People can fall anywhere along it and there is a difference between personal sexual orientation and the preferences for what people like to do or have done to them in the bedroom. If you can imagine it, someone has probably done it.

My $0.02 worth : You are overthinking this, which is quite normal due to the programming we all get as children.

Explore. Women, men, TS. The whole menu.

Sure, there are straight guys who can perform in gay films, and, as was the case with the male provider you visited, gays who can perform with females.

Bottom line: Is there any better feeling than cumming ? Isn't that what we are all chasing on here ? Well, er,,,, ah... cumming for $$$... to be sure...

My $0.02 worth : You are overthinking this, which is quite normal due to the programming we all get as children.

Explore. Women, men, TS. The whole menu.

Sure, there are straight guys who can perform in gay films, and, as was the case with the male provider you visited, gays who can perform with females.

Bottom line: Is there any better feeling than cumming ? Isn't that what we are all chasing on here ? Well, er,,,, ah... cumming for $$$... to be sure... Originally Posted by crashkopf

I don't think I am overthinking it, lols. I am well aware that sexuality can be very fluid for many (as well as myself) and don't hem myself in.

However, the same is not true for all people. I know plenty of folks who are steadfastly straight.

Or, what I find funny, is those that staunchly claim to be straight, but then will do sex work with the same gender.


I just wondered if there are any female providers out there who feel this way, but will still be with male clients. I haven't heard of this ever and so would be curious to talk to them and hear their perspectives on it.

Humans, their brains, etc, are pretty fascinating to me.

People labels ... nah.

I don't think I am overthinking it, lols. I am well aware that sexuality can be very fluid for many (as well as myself) and don't hem myself in.

However, the same is not true for all people. I know plenty of folks who are steadfastly straight.

Or, what I find funny, is those that staunchly claim to be straight, but then will do sex work with the same gender.


I just wondered if there are any female providers out there who feel this way, but will still be with male clients. I haven't heard of this ever and so would be curious to talk to them and hear their perspectives on it.

Humans, their brains, etc, are pretty fascinating to me. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

No disrespect meant ! Labels are confining. Sometimes a hard cock has no conscience. The same goes for women also. People will do many things they normally wouldn't for cash. Desperation with no funds will often lead to alternatives not otherwise considered.

Gays pay better from what I have heard.

Sweet Victoria you have one of the most sensual sexy minds in the world. Keep these thoughts and questions cumming. We all need our sexual thoughts and minds stretched as far as possible. If all ladies were like you there'd be no divorce or break ups ever. Everyone would be too busy in bed or recovering for the next session.

Sweet Victoria you have one of the most sensual sexy minds in the world. Keep these thoughts and questions cumming. We all need our sexual thoughts and minds stretched as far as possible. If all ladies were like you there'd be no divorce or break ups ever. Everyone would be too busy in bed or recovering for the next session. Originally Posted by Dynalow96

You are the sweet one; you spoil me with compliments....(and other things. ) Miss ya!

No disrespect meant ! Labels are confining. Sometimes a hard cock has no conscience. The same goes for women also. People will do many things they normally wouldn't for cash. Desperation with no funds will often lead to alternatives not otherwise considered.

Gays pay better from what I have heard. Originally Posted by crashkopf

None taken.

Yes, I have heard the same about gay porn paying higher, so that could definitely be one motivation behind it. Same as a provider humoring a 3 way when she's really straight or a male client when she's really gay.

I also agree that labels are confining. I guess I just find it laughable when they say, "I'm straight!" But their cock is hard while another man sucks them off, lols.

"Sometimes a hard cock has no conscience." Haha! Touche sir. Very true.

I guess I just find it laughable when they say, "I'm straight!" But their cock is hard while another man sucks them off, lols.
Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

I agree. Doesn't make much sense. It's kinda like guys that are interested in TS's will be quick to tell everyone they're completely straight.

Half the women in strip clubs like sex with women, but most could never live with them. The active lesbians(the ones with real girl friends) that dance for me get turned on by dancing for me. I'm not special.

I guess what I am saying is that it is clearly true that girls who like girls can get turned on by guys. Once you get turned on, it is just mechanics.

I have a Gay gold star Lesbian girl on my race team. I do a lot of road trip where we are ridding for hours in the rig. She is smoking hot and butch . She loves sex with girls and gets hit on all the time. I use to question why she would have a crew cut hair cut. Well on the last trip we had troubles with rig and both got dirty. I use truck stop showers often. while both of us were waiting for showers to open, A decent looking lady ask her to come take a show with her. She was tired and declined. But she looked at be ad said that why she dresses that way.
I talked to her about relationships and she says she is 100% gay but could never have a meaningful relationship with a female. She said way to much drama. I ask her what her long term plans were and she told me that living with a girls would never work, but she indicated a relationship with a gay guy could work. I said that sounds like being straight. She said , it was n ot about sex, but having a person she could relate to and share a life with . Is this kind of deal common. She even said they could have kids and raise them. So I said that would mean sex with a guy. she said that that would never happen. Confusing

Test tube babies.

there are several pairs of female providers in the dfw area who state they're both lesbian homosexuals, yet still accept appts and $$$ from guys. small dataset but neither have consistently glowing reviews.

in my mind, the question is not "are there homosexuals who engage in heterosexual activities for cash?" but "how prevalent is this and are they above average providers or just going thru the motions for the cash?"

race4girls, i get the "Gay ... Lesbian girl " part (tho quite redudant), but what is a "... gold star Lesbian ... " ?? a serious question from my wondering mind.
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also which girls are you racing "4"(for)?
or is ut racing so you can get the girls?
or is it racing towards??
agai, just curiously wondering.....