Disguised OF ads on Tryst

I think many are asking people to "pay for conversation" because some men try to engage in a makeshift phone sex chat in guise of booking a session. They will text back and forth for a week pretending they're interested, all the while they're just bored and trying to get their jollies off. It's beneficial to the male but detrimental to the female.
I love chatting and getting to know new people but it gets really frustrating. Originally Posted by AnnDromeda69

Problem is too many losers and simps.


OF shows just how fucking bad the dating world has become. Men who aren't a 9 or a 10 are invisible to women on dating sites, as those 9 and 10 men will sleep with anything. You see this in the online dating stats like Tinder where only 10% of the dudes get all the swipes.


I'm also one of those dudes that wasn't born looking like Brad Pitt. All you can do is go to the gym or get involved in athletics to at least get a good/decent body, and work on yourself. And/or get a hobby to get out into the world and socialize on some level.



The losers and simps are the ones that also weren't born looking like Brad Pitt, but just sit around doing nothing about it. Part of the problem is how many of us are all online now sitting indoors on our phones and computers.


There's some irony in it as I type this on a computer, but moderation is key.

I think many are asking people to "pay for conversation" because some men try to engage in a makeshift phone sex chat in guise of booking a session. They will text back and forth for a week pretending they're interested, all the while they're just bored and trying to get their jollies off. It's beneficial to the male but detrimental to the female.
I love chatting and getting to know new people but it gets really frustrating. Originally Posted by AnnDromeda69

That is easily mitigated. Two or three texts and schedule a session. Otherwise drop the conversation.

Also a slam dunk red flag for a scam is when they say you have to join/schedule through their Only Fans. I'm pretty certain that I have seen multiple posts about OF that if you mention anything about in person meeting, appointments, visits, etc. that you are kicked off and out any money you have spent. Totally agree there are a lot of Tryst scams with OF..... Originally Posted by Boredinop

this is 100% true, OF bans any mention of meet up or anything involving something like it. anyone saying to message them through OF for a meet up is a scammer.
ive experienced what OP has too. it is annoying. last time it was a woman whose profile made no mention of being online only, and even seemed to hint at in person meetings. her per hour rates listed even matched with what ive seen of other in person providers.

her only contact was through whatsapp so i installed it,set it up, and messaged her only to get a message from her that she is online only. way to waste my time, could have just said that in your listing.

I have yet to receive anything other than "bot" replies to my inquiries on Tryst. As far as I am concerned, yes, the whole web site is a scam. Originally Posted by Anonymous01

ive seen a number of fake looking ads on there, but have skipped them. the four women ive reached out to on there have all been real and not scams. did you not check for reviews of them on sites such as this before reaching out? or did you go for the "too good to be true" type of ads ive seen? those seem to be the majority of scam ads ive seen, so remember, if it seems too good to be true then it probably is a scam.

Tryst is “sex worker friendly” which in practice means they will never take any action on scammers or fakes. Tryst has always been a joke. Originally Posted by SomeRandomGuy88

they have already taken down the post in OP. but in general most websites dont do much about scams. you know how many scams i report on sites like twitter, instagram,facebook, etc only to see those scam accounts still running months later? tech companies not stopping scammers is a big problem across the entire Internet.

though i will say with tryst in particular is my bigger problem with them is they allow trans providers to advertise in the female category. why even have a separate trans category if you dont enforce it? when i search for female providers i do not want a trans provider, that isnt what i am looking for, please dont show me them unless i search for it. dating apps also do this same thing and i hate it. if that is what you want, fine, but put that under trans section for the people who want that and arnt looking for female specific.

I do not get who pays for only fans today! When it came out I subscribed to check it out and found I get the exact same content from any of the major porn sites.

What am I missing?

If any provider send me a link for an only Fans I delete our correspondence. There are plenty of providers who are willing to see me without only fans verification. Originally Posted by Fizley

i agree. ive tried it out and i dont get it. there is more free porn you could ever watch already on the internet. what is even more is there are OF where you pay a monthly fee but then all the content is still PPV. i really dont get how stupid a guy must be to go along with that. pay 20 dollars a month to have the privilege to pay 10 dollars per 2 minute long video? makes zero sense to me.

What in the world happened to getting in touch with a well reviewed Provider, scheduling a session, having a good time, and parting ways.

Isn’t that what the whole “hobby thing” was supposed to be about?

^Covid.

A lot of men today are suckers for love.

I have yet to see any thing worth on tyrst, mostly stg and LC.

I have yet to see any thing worth on tyrst, mostly stg and LC. Originally Posted by Ripmany

It's the opposite in my area. LC is where most of the scams are. STG is where most of the YMMV and "beware" types are at. Tryst is where the good ones are.

It's the opposite in my area. LC is where most of the scams are. STG is where most of the YMMV and "beware" types are at. Tryst is where the good ones are. Originally Posted by JustForFun.1

I wounder the area stg better than LC but adultlook used to be good but it has 6 adds all nothing I can mostly amps.

So what all of y'all are describing is the gap between men figuring out how to deal with women, vs women figuring out how to deal with men, or worse pimps figuring out how to deal with Horny dudes.
They know that if your horny, your more likely to sign-up to pay for a video here-or there once you have been catfished (Im guilty of that btw).
But eventually you figure out you aren't getting value for your dollar and you move on.
However, there are so many horny dudes, literraly 90% of the straight male population and probably a sizeable portion of the gay population too, that the market for running the scam is literally too enormous to ignore. So these 304's just keep providing worse and worse service, and nothing ever changes.