What to do with a submissive woman

dongman2's Avatar
Recently met a woman that there is some chemistry, and moving on to the adult games.
In some hot sexting today, she came out and said she is completely mine to own sexually, and that she has no boundaries that she knows of.

While this gets me pretty hot thinking about the fun we could have, I am completely new to this. So I thought this would be a good place to get some advice from both sides.

First and foremost, I am not into anything degrading. I would like to explore this relationship, but I do draw the line at some things. She has already asked, and is calling me "Daddy" in our texts. While I'm ok with this, I have no idea what to call her. I have told her nice pic babe, but need a little help with this(looking more for female point of view, and again, nothing degrading).

So guys, gals, if you could help a brother out, I would appreciate it. Would like to have fun with this, but looking for a little guidance.

Thanks in advance,
Pistolero's Avatar
Looks like this is real life, not hobby. So, moving to sandbox
Dating 101.
This is not the place to get that type of advice. Google or go to a library.
Russ38's Avatar
The places I could take this....Heh.....I'll watch from the sidelines for now....

This scenario has junglemonkey written all over it....
SweetDulce's Avatar
Give. Her orders and if she doesn't complete say u will punish her. Ex.... Send me a pic of u pinching ur beautiful left nipple within the next 5 minutes Babydoll.
Then u can say crap like . That took 7 minutes. I said 5. Now I will have to stick 2 extra fingers in ur pussy , 1 finger fir each minute.
Make sure u are only stern and controlling in the sexual content. Also take sum than ng she likes and deny it or delay gratification. But in a nice way. But still stern and manly. ... ex... if she says fuck my pussy please. Say no. Ill fuck it when I'm ready. Or no. I'm not done playing with these perfect titiies.
That's the stuff u can try to feel her out. She might b more hardcore.
  • anita
  • 06-01-2015, 05:49 PM
Call her princess
talldudeinspring's Avatar
go wild
Give. Her orders and if she doesn't complete say u will punish her. Ex.... Send me a pic of u pinching ur beautiful left nipple within the next 5 minutes Babydoll.
Then u can say crap like . That took 7 minutes. I said 5. Now I will have to stick 2 extra fingers in ur pussy , 1 finger fir each minute.
Make sure u are only stern and controlling in the sexual content. Also take sum than ng she likes and deny it or delay gratification. But in a nice way. But still stern and manly. ... ex... if she says fuck my pussy please. Say no. Ill fuck it when I'm ready. Or no. I'm not done playing with these perfect titiies.
That's the stuff u can try to feel her out. She might b more hardcore. Originally Posted by SweetDulce
Great start.. also alot of nipple play, tie her up and tease her, then fuck her how you want to, some light to moderate spanking, and make her service your cock with her mouth. There's so many variables within just that if you use your imagination. Then you can venture off into other things once you gauge what she likes.

Dating 101.
This is not the place to get that type of advice. Google or go to a library. Originally Posted by Lustnotlove
That's a ridiculous statement.
The new ..." Trunk Monkey"


Just be sure to keep water in the trunk......
Mmmm I'm going to do this to you pretty soon
By submitting herself to you sexually she its wanting you to man up. Take charge of your time together. Its an individual thing you're just going to have to explore ass to what you're capable of. She's already told you she had no limits, go find out.
SweetDulce's Avatar
Mmmm I'm going to do this to you pretty soon Originally Posted by Pussypleaser69
Hmmmmm. I HOPE SO
Remember it is a mind game. I have a lot of real world experience. She enjoys the excitement of submitting and that excitement at this stage is partly in not knowing what comes next for her. This is the training stage she wants to please she wants to be taught. Design a training plan for her. Tailor it to your desires but always keep her motivations in mind. Have fun!!!
Tetas's Avatar
  • Tetas
  • 06-02-2015, 11:16 AM
Careful. Make sure you're on the same page before laying it on too thick.
Some civi gals I've ran across say that they are "submissive" and have no limits when what they really mean is that you have to make all the moves while they lay there and they gave a BJ once...
dongman2's Avatar
Good advice all. I certainly appreciate everything.

Regards,