NBA....I just don't get it.

I know this topic has been discussed so many times but I'm just baffled that in this industry, one in which I do participate, but is considered to be the most immoral, and at times dishonest, that there are providers who refuse to see black men.
Who are they to be so self righteous, and yet not see men if color. I think they have a lot of nerve....I mean damn, you're selling sex.
I know sometimes it's a matter of preference, or sometimes "management" that may also be men of color that don't want to risk competition.
I just think this is crazy.

Someone call PETA, they are trying to beat a dead horse!

If you want to know the reasons, there are plenty of threads for you to research.

Not saying I agree with their reasons, but even though they are selling sex, they still have the right to control their own body. Besides.....do you want to spend money on a session with someone who doesn't want to see you.....for whatever reason?

Disilene, I know all the reasons.
I've read all of them. I just needed to say it again.
Of course I'm not going to spend money on a session with a provider who really doesn't want to see me.

Well since I am the provider you contacted I guess I'll reply...
I think you are being just as self-righteous in you own way, after all I'm not making comments about your desire to see white women. Everyone has their personal preferences for their own reasons...why not just say thanks anyway and move on...

Perhaps there have been bad experiences in the past, I happen to know of several people who will not see people of their own race, black and white. Calling people small minded isn't helping your case!!!

I know this topic has been discussed so many times but ... Originally Posted by Dakidone69

No buts ... this is a dead horse and so much so this topic has been made a "sticky" on ECCIE so you should post there. Most of us who are tired of this topic stay away from those stickies because we're tired of the issue.

UNITED STATES OF AMERICA ... DEAL WITH IT. People still have free choice in this country about who they get intimate with.

Additionally - it's not a racial thing either ... they're not racists because a large number of AA providers refuse black men too. Why don't you talk to them for the reasons why?

I see whatever race as long as your convo is appropriate, and respectful

But a lot of black men have bad reps with escorts. I only see black men in certain state's
Los Angeles is an hell no with blacks

My apoligies, I wasn't referring to it being a racial issue, just pointing out that that everyone has their preferences, no matter what color...

And you ard right...we do live in a land of freedom and choice...move on keep looking...

Subject closed!!"

It is what it is. Move on and find someone who will appreciate you and your $$'$. Do
n't le one lady's restrictions ruin your hobbying. There are plenty of other
fish in the sea. Excuse the typos. Hard to type on my phone.

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t Originally Posted by DallasRain

Love it!! :-P

I know this topic has been discussed so many times but I'm just baffled that in this industry, one in which I do participate, but is considered to be the most immoral, and at times dishonest, that there are providers who refuse to see black men.
Who are they to be so self righteous, and yet not see men if color. I think they have a lot of nerve....I mean damn, you're selling sex.
I know sometimes it's a matter of preference, or sometimes "management" that may also be men of color that don't want to risk competition.
I just think this is crazy. Originally Posted by Dakidone69

I would almost be willing to bet, that you have a preference for not seeing either big girls, or skinny chicks... what's the difference?

Some of these black men that complain that some white providers have a preference not to see black men. If you look at their reviews, that don't see black providers. Only white and hispanic. Is that racist? Or is that a preference? It works both ways. Like gdiddy said...get over it and move on. Yeah and see a sista too.

I have seen this gentleman a couple of times, he is always polite and always a gentleman.
It can be frustrating to see a girl that you would really like to have fun with and get hit with NBA policy. As long as a man treats me with respect and talks to me intelligently, I wouldn't care if he was purple with green spots!

ditto!

I saw a VERY sweet black gent in Baton Rouge recently and just saw one in Pensacola..................... .stereotyping is not cool!

It does all boil down to respect and attitude with both hobbyist & provider!!

How can you expect respect and a good attitude from a provider who doesn't want to see somebody for whatever reason. I don't like McDonald hamburgers but if somebody pays me to eat them I'm supposed to like them and because there is money involved it makes it mandatory that I like it. Really