Question for the fellas!

Whatsup guys! So I was wondering, as I'm new to the hobby and have yet to have my first date, (working on it) how many fellas have gfs/wives/so's and hobby? And for the guys that do, how do YOU explain the missing money? Lol and time away? My gf doesn't have access to my bank info so she won't even notice, but in the rare case she might notice, I was wondering what kind of excuses you guys use. Lol

(Sorry if this is in the wrong place)

I've heard doing cash back when grocery shopping and taking out increments of money as one suggestion...

Secondary account she does not know about.
Split checks from work.
Cash back.
She is GF don't give her access.

Sam

The thing with secondary accounts is to make sure the bank doesn't suddenly sends mail to your home. Very, very bad day for married couples.

Welcome and imo first thing or two you need to do list:

-- figure out why you are here instead of fully enjoying your GF experience

-- consider buying Premium Access to gain benefit of ROS and ML

-- all of your questions and concers are addressed in many forums, so exploring and researching on your own will reveal a lot and help you in your hobbying future.

Happy Hobbying!

or in other words, be prepared for consequences. we are all adults.

Money is one thing to worry about. Be concerned of all aspects of the hobby life too. Stay safe.

Welcome and imo first thing or two you need to do list:

-- figure out why you are here instead of fully enjoying your GF experience


Happy Hobbying! Originally Posted by ck1942

CK, don't give the guy any ideas...It would be bad for our business if guys actually tried to work out their issues at home.

Lol, missing money. Why does your gf view your bank account? If you're paying the bills, if you two are living together, then there shouldn't be any questions. Explained time away: go for drives, go to the store, starbucks to study, the gym, for a run. Haha, plenty of ways..Just be careful health wise. If she views your bank account, then she probably looks through your phone, so download the burner or sideline app.

I lost the money playing poker. and a second phone

Lol again, she doesn't look at my bank account. The main point of my op was to ask what you guys say. Just so I have a few more ideas for ammo.

Thanks everyone who took the time to reply!

Its a money management learning experience, don't do it until you know you can manage it! See porn sites lot les expensive!

CK, don't give the guy any ideas...It would be bad for our business if guys actually tried to work out their issues at home. Originally Posted by JustCallMe_G

Hahaha

Some would say: turn back and never look back! Walk away while you can. This is way too much fun and addictive!

Bruh deal in all cash! It's almost impossible to track. I 100% willing to deal with the consequence if caught so I really don't pay much attention. But with that being said my money is mine hers is hers as long as bills are being paid the question of money never comes up.

Take up golf. Gives you a 4 hour window, or if you are a really bad golfer, 5-6 hours!!