I think the main idea is to put off the O as long as possible in order to make the eventual O even greater. Lots of self control and communication required. Also, searching for not so obvious erogenous zones.
Thank you Sensuous Lydia for suggesting my practice. Unfortunately gents I do not travel at this time. I do want to mention that there is a new forum open called "Alternative Realm" and I will be posting on Tantra there... Please address any questions and such there..
I will leave resource information and hopefully the Mods will make a sticky.