Youtube question

I made a couple videos and I would like to post them here. I have an account on youtube and have uploaded a couple of short videos and I have it set to private. I see there is a youtube tab here on the right hand side and its also there when sending a PM.
Here is my dilemma, I sent myself a test PM with a link using the youtube tab and putting the link between the brackets. It did not show up as a viewable link. I tried another test by just copying and pasting the link and it would show the video, but it also showed my youtube user name. I tried this again, logging out of youtube and it said it was private.

How can I post the link here and keep my user name private?
HELP!
Thank you.

You can embed Youtube videos in your posts this way...

[YOUTUBE]YoutubeID[/YOUTUBE]
[YOUTUBEHD]YoutubeID[/YOUTUBEHD]

Where YoutubeID is the Youtube View ID.

Nothing to it.

If she posted them to YouTube as Private, I don't think that will work.

Strike that, I know what I did wrong now!