newbie dilemma

i am a newbie. i can totally understand why some providers would require references.

so i browse through the Provider Showcase here in South Texas. i count 41 providers, not counting a few agencies that have profiles. 41 providers in South Texas.

14 are from CC
1 is from Dallas
1 is from Houston
1 is from San Antonio
1 is quitting the biz
7 UTRs which require references
8 straight out need references
2 seem to be not in the RGV area

That's 35 providers already that aren't in the area and/or won't see me.

that only leaves 6 providers that can see me because they are newbie friendly.

Gloriee
Kitzia
Klarixxa
Pampered Secret
Sofi
Zoe956

Again, i am going by what i can find on their profiles from the Showcases. Did i skip someone?

So i need to see 2 out of the 6, in order for me to go to the next level. i totally understand but i just wish there were some other way. Sorry. just venting a little...

i will breakthrough to the other side soon....

I would recommend kitzia and pampered secret. Both have awesome skills.

It takes a little while to build it up. Join P411 and it will help. Once you get through the first part it gets easy.

That's good advice. It's for everybody's protection.

I would recommend Pampered Secret and just make sure that you do something to have her remember you, perhaps a box of chocolates or a funny shirt or funny story you told her. Anything that makes you stand out. Soon after, pm the girl you want to see, that way she can pm Pampered and she'll remember you because she just saw you. If you wait a month or two, it will be hard to any girl to remember you. That's how I did it but with a different girl who no longer provides.

Same with me. See one girl be nice respectful and she will see you. Then once you get started down the rabbit hole you go. Then oneday you be able to see the best Jessicautr. I still have that smile tatooed to my face thanks to her.

Id say see Kitza. Ive seen her before sexy girl like ud see walking downtown mcallen. Just know your spanish.

I think Kitzia will ask for references. In fact, I'm positive of it.

i am a newbie. i can totally understand why some providers would require references.

so i browse through the Provider Showcase here in South Texas. i count 41 providers, not counting a few agencies that have profiles. 41 providers in South Texas.

14 are from CC
1 is from Dallas
1 is from Houston
1 is from San Antonio
1 is quitting the biz
7 UTRs which require references
8 straight out need references
2 seem to be not in the RGV area

That's 35 providers already that aren't in the area and/or won't see me.

that only leaves 6 providers that can see me because they are newbie friendly.

Gloriee
Kitzia
Klarixxa
Pampered Secret
Sofi
Zoe956

Again, i am going by what i can find on their profiles from the Showcases. Did i skip someone?

So i need to see 2 out of the 6, in order for me to go to the next level. i totally understand but i just wish there were some other way. Sorry. just venting a little...

i will breakthrough to the other side soon.... Originally Posted by rgvdude1

Hey! I'm newbie friendly after screening. I will be down in the RGV very soon.

Now some girls require references only for their protection. I require 2 references or P411 ID with references. Sometimes I do see guys that have 1 references as long as I can get them verified and ok to see. What also would help you too is that if you see a provider and lets just say you want to go see another one, make sure there's something that first provider you saw can remember you by. That helps too. P411 is just as good too.

Maybe we can meet soon. Happy hobbying! Always remember to play safe.

WOW not many providers in the rgv good luck to ya babe I do visit the valley sometimes. I may be in Mcallen next week.

"i am a newbie. i can totally understand why some providers would require references.

...so i browse through the Provider Showcase here in South Texas. i count 41 providers, not counting a few agencies that have profiles. 41 providers in South Texas.


Again, i am going by what i can find on their profiles from the Showcases. Did i skip someone?...". Originally Posted by rgvdude1

RGVDude,

Monica361 is missing from your hit list. I'm unsure of your search parameters you used. I generally search for region to region, find the providers, read the profile as to compatibility, and go from there.

Monica is newbie friendly (according to her postings) and after her own screening process. http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=516999

Mr. Smith’s posting is dead on target. I joined P411. Very comprehensive and P411 wanted a lot of personal information. I’m seldom in an office, can’t be contacted by telephone, etc., etc. P411 contacted me via cell phone and wanted more data. I provided more that they wanted. I scanned my actual visas (23 entry and exits) in my passport, with my actual passport photo, into India, Ivory Coast, Trinidad, Thailand, China, S. Korea, Indonesia, and finally Nigeria. Show me how many LE carry a 50 page passport, to bust a provider. r P411 staff freaked out, and actually called me. Lori from P411(their staff) asked how I got such a job, and if there were openings.

In actuality; my career is a suitcase job, out of hotels, and isn’t as glamorous as it seems. Not unless you want to work 7 days a week, 12 to 14 hours a day, for 2 or more month stretches. There wasn’t even a question, and I was immediately approved in 5 minutes, and I became a certified member. Joining P411 is a very good investment of $89 a year, and sets the providers mind somewhat at ease. She is just as afraid as you, and I now will easily provide my profile to whomever I chose to be with. I want the woman’s mind to be comfortable, and have a better relationship when we finally meet.

However! Just joining P411 is not a blank check or “carte blhance.” I still need references from someone stateside. I have curtailed my travels for the next year or so just to rest up. I’m in the same newbie status as you.

Might I suggest a few more meaningful posts on this forum? I suspect that a provider will go here immediately, and see the content of posts. If I was a provider this is the first place, in which I would come to, just to get a lay of the background of a client.

BTW; BackPages or Oriental meetings, don’t carry any water!

I wish you the best of luck since we are in the same newbie status. I hope this helps somewhat. This is from newbie to newbie. Perhaps. some senior BMs will chime in


Typhon

thank you mirandalee. it's unfortunate that you didn't come to McAllen after all. and it now seems that you are NOT newbie friendly?

Thank you Typon. i counted Monica361 as in not in the area. She is in CC and i am in RGV. So i counted her as 1 of the 14 in CC. i will have to look into P411.

i'm aware that BP, Moco, and Oriental meetings don't carry water. but rgvdude has got needs. but i hope by posting reviews that the providers see that i am serious about hobbying, legit, not LE, and not a bad guy.

Wow..I feel your pain...just how I felt...thinking of getting out the hobby b4 I even start. Gud luk

I used to be newbie friendly until a bad experience happend to me in Mcallen so to avoid that situation again by not see newbies. I have met some great guys in the valley off BP who gave me NO drama thats crazzy lol. But I wish you the best of luck babe... besos

I'm newbie friendly! You left me out haha but yes I'm newbie friendly. Idk if I was in the 35 that aren't around. I'm based out of McAllen, but travel back and forth between here and corpus