weird question

just curious... but do any of you fellow hobbiest have a SO that knows about your fun time on here? Do any of the providers have a SO that doesn't mind you providing? Do any of the hobbiest have a SO that has a fantasy of being a provider?
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Not going to comment on myself personally, but I do know several couples who hobby together.

Not sure exactly how that works, but my gut hunch is that most hobbyists prefer their s.o. be in the dark about the hobby. However, my other gut hunch is that many spouses eventually figure out where that spare cash might be going.
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  • ttmax
  • 09-22-2016, 10:15 PM
+1 ck1942
Not going to comment on myself personally, but I do know several couples who hobby together.

Not sure exactly how that works, but my gut hunch is that most hobbyists prefer their s.o. be in the dark about the hobby. However, my other gut hunch is that many spouses eventually figure out where that spare cash might be going. Originally Posted by ck1942
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Not going to comment on myself personally, but I do know several couples who hobby together.

Not sure exactly how that works, but my gut hunch is that most hobbyists prefer their s.o. be in the dark about the hobby. However, my other gut hunch is that many spouses eventually figure out where that spare cash might be going. Originally Posted by ck1942
I really, really hate it when you bust my bubble! I know the truth of what you are saying but hope I can get away with it a little longer. My list is just too long.


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It does providers little good to state they have an SO, many customers or potential customers are turned off by a female supporting an SO; while other customers may get off on it.

It really is none of our business if she has an SO and whether or not the SO knows.

In turn my guess is that many spouses/SOs do not like to share their mate and most importantly, their spouses money, so most SOs are in the clueless or "rather not know" categories.

For the couples that do play together more power to them, but I know that if my SO cared to share I would be reticent to advertise the fact, too many PMs asking to join in on the action.

Even though we share information on this board, some things are meant to remain private.

My $.02.
It does providers little good to state they have an SO, many customers or potential customers are turned off by a female supporting an SO; while other customers may get off on it.

It really is none of our business if she has an SO and whether or not the SO knows.

In turn my guess is that many spouses/SOs do not like to share their mate and most importantly, their spouses money, so most SOs are in the clueless or "rather not know" categories.

For the couples that do play together more power to them, but I know that if my SO cared to share I would be reticent to advertise the fact, too many PMs asking to join in on the action.

Even though we share information on this board, some things are meant to remain private.

My $.02. Originally Posted by Doglegg
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