Take your own advise please

pretty pineapples's Avatar
I appreciate everyone being so concerned about the likes of my business. But I see not everyone is easy to please.
I just posted an ad that says I offer bbbj (*actually all of my ads say this and other variety of services you really just have to ask about it.) I like to have sex and I enjoy this so very much. I don't know what I did to the guys on here that I do not get all extreme volume of calls from this website but I do see people from time to time on here. And I have good experiences and see them multiple times.

But some would suggest I am lacking good customer service skills and I give bad experiences based on 4 reviews. You guys have to know that I fucked way more than four guys since I've started and not everyone thinks the same. In the beginning I will admit I was worried about giving bbbj but I've matured in the game and understand the pleasure goes both ways if I want you to eat my kitty. [Which I do LOL ] then I return the favor with a bbbj.... My rates are very clear on here but at the time people were calling me from Backpage when the ad stated $60. That only covered one service which was a bj with a condom. If they came in with $100 I would fuck you for 15 minutes or so with a condom bj covered also.
But guys would call me from a eccie with Backpage information and wondered why they were getting bj Services well you did not pay for anything else. I made my rates very very clear when I post now so what is expected from me should be simple. I am not trying to burn my bridges here because I do like the fact that I can post naked pictures and talk freely and have discussions but stay out of my inbox talking about what you don't know if you guys are not taking your own advice.
Such as when you actually see a girl that you like you're supposed to write a review to discuss what happened well I've given reviews specials to so many guys and I've seen them multiple times but they do not write reviews like they promised. I do not get upset or anything I just asked for it again and whenever they get the time they will. I picked up the escortinh because I wanted to and if anyone has a problem with the way I run my business please do not contact me or my friends. Well fuck each other if we have to LOL but you guys will not pay whatever you want to get all the services you expect. I have a set rate please honor it and I honor what you ask for no questions asked

I wrote this in the co-ed discussion but it's really not up for discussion LOL
ttmax's Avatar
  • ttmax
  • 01-20-2017, 10:42 AM
Hallo Ms Pretty! Do not worry about pleasing everyone, there will always be the ones that no matter how nice you are, they are unhappy! Just please some of us that want to be please and carry on! I prefer all cover and just a touch kiss on the lips, and I am totally happy! Do not post rebuttals either cause it's not good! Just keep on doing what you are doing and some of us are ok with that!
oldtiger's Avatar
*advice*
Wow - A self review - Does she get 6 weeks of ads free?
I actually saw her recently without realizing who she was since I did get her info off of bp. I didn't recognize her, but that's a good thing. I thought she was cuter in person. While searching eccie though I have seen her ads and I dismissed reaching out to her because of the negative reviews she got. My experience was a lot better than the impression those reviews gave me and I'll go ahead and drop my own review soon. I get her frustration though, me being new makes it hard to see anyone without references. Bad reviews/no references mean the world here.
Dr Grey's Avatar
I actually saw her recently without realizing who she was since I did get her info off of bp. I didn't recognize her, but that's a good thing. I thought she was cuter in person. While searching eccie though I have seen her ads and I dismissed reaching out to her because of the negative reviews she got. My experience was a lot better than the impression those reviews gave me and I'll go ahead and drop my own review soon. I get her frustration though, me being new makes it hard to see anyone without references. Bad reviews/no references mean the world here. Originally Posted by LemmePIITB
You're off to a good start looking for bbfs in the other thread. *smdh*

As for the rates, look pretty clear to me for the most part. However I'd go one way or another. Can be confusing to people if they don't know a lesser donation means cbj will be provided. Most guys will assume a rate is all inclusive these days as guys are donating for your time, not services. Least I would hope they are.
Ms Francisca's Avatar
. Bad reviews/no references mean the world here. Originally Posted by LemmePIITB
The safety of all involved, as well as the experience being worth the investment by both parties means the world here.
Remember that both gentlemen and providers search for information on this site. Providers read your reviews and take into consideration the ladies you see as well as the activities you partake in. We also read your posts.... your tone, your choice of vocabulary..... many things are considered by a lady before accepting a new client.

Besos,
Francisca
Dr Grey's Avatar
Ms Francisca, a smart lady absolutely should do those things. I tend to see those who are attentive to what's going on myself. I have a feeling many women do not however research their clients as thoroughly as they should however.

Ms Francisca, please let me know if you publish a "Sex worker 101" field guide. I'd like to hand it personally to a few folks.
Tj max white Knight.
Doglegg's Avatar
Pretty P.,

There may be several reasons your door is not knocked 100 times a day.

1. Poor reviews, 2 No, 1 meh, 1 yes. There are a lot of guys that don't like those odds at what I would call a premium service price.

2. CBJ. Some guys like them, the majority do not. Noted you offer BBBJ, but this is the activity most noted in your reviews.

3. Your age. There are many guys that go for girls in your age group, there are many of us that do not, unless the reports of your taking care of business and skills are remarkable.

I found myself in the boudoir of a very lovely lady in her young twenties that knew how to fuck and give a blowjob, however, nothing about it was remarkable or worth going back to a second time. Everything required prompting, especially too much teeth, more time with tongue, use of imagination, etc. These are the issues we have found within your age group and we are not up to training you unless you have a high degree of potential.

4. A more experienced provider will tell you that review specials are good for the next visit. Full price this visit, $20, $30, or 50% for a return visit. Keeps the customer honest so to speak about writing reviews and builds your return visitor rate.

5. As you noted this is your business in a free market economy, you have sole responsibility to make it or break it; your success depends on your ability to anticipate customers wants and needs in a manner that results in high returning customer rate.

Street walkers sell pussy and blow jobs, better providers sell themselves in a manner that seems less a business transaction. Courtesans provide a relationship that seems less about money but more about the experience they share.

I do hope you receive these suggestions in the manner meant and conveyed and that some serve in good use to you.

Dogg
^^^^^ +1000
It's best to charge the same everywhere. You may want to just specify: non-GFE rate vs GFE rate. If it's a matter of hygiene, and you look at someone and you are not comfortable performing a certain activity, maybe you should ask yourself if you should be seeing him at all.

Establishing clear expectations ahead of time will solve most of your problems in this arena.

Good luck!