This is the market. These are some of the men in the market. Take a good, long "look" at those that don't want to be screened. And start adding to your DNS list now. Because not all money is good money. If a guy won't allow himself to be screened, then I don't trust him. Hell, I don't even trust him after he's been screened. That takes time and investing in a relationship.
As for the guy who said he never sees providers who need money. Really? You think providers see you because you're James Bond, Man of Mystery? Try NOT leaving a donation one time, and see how far that gets you, dude. Yeah, the ladies are just lining up to see you. Just because you're awesome.
Do what you need to do to take care of you. And don't worry over the future. It takes care of itself, whether you worry or not. "Worry is worshiping the problem."
Love you, sweetie.