While my post has everything to do with the business side of escorting, I must admit I have nothing to sell here. If I am in the wrong place I would appreciate being moved to a more appropriate forum, because I really do feel that this may help some people.
I think there are some amazing photographers, website designers and assistants around , but there are also some who exploit the inexperience of others. Sometimes it helps when we can share the knowledge that we have gained during our time as companions , so that we may learn from each other. What I have written below is just my opinion, and I am far from an expert on these subjects . I encourage people to add to this thread to share their own ideas, regardless of whether or not they agree, as that would be a great way to offer a far more balanced, and complete view of this side of our business.. It would be great if some of this information could reach those who are new to the world of companionship to help make better informed choices with not only their money, but also the personal information that often comes with it. My wish is that we can all just get along, and stay on topic here. I will start with what I feel are the more common services we use, and work my way down.
Photographers.... I think that there are so many talented photographers on eccie if I were local to the area it would be hard to choose. I do believe that if a particular photographer's work catches my eye there is nothing wrong with asking around to make sure their previous clients were happy with not only their results, but also with the way they were treated while working together. It is fine to ask questions regarding how many years they have practiced, and what type of classes they have completed related to photography. Sometimes it is not so much their experience level that counts , but more the way they react to the questions that will tell you what you need to know .
Also keep in mind that many photographers will have you sign an agreement stating that they do own the rights to the images they take of you. Be sure that you understand what you are signing, and what if anything they plan to use your images for. Most of the time I believe they are simply protecting their own reputation, but it is always good to keep things clear either way.
Website designers....There is so much more to a website than simply a pretty design. In today’s world anyone can create a website using all the free software that is currently available online It is the designers job to not just build you a site, but to code it, so that it loads fast.,appears the way it should in all the major browsers/screen sizes/internet mediums,and most important can be moved from one host to another if necessary. If a website has been built using software provided by one of the hosting sites it could become a problem if that particular host decides to change their policy on adult content, or goes out of business. Even if you just want to move your site to a more affordable host you will only be able to do so with a site that has been built with software that is independent of any hosting sites. It may never be an issue for you, but please keep those limitations in mind if you choose to take that option . Also make sure you understand how many changes you are allowed to have made to your site before you will be charged extra ,as well as how easy it may be to make the adjustments yourself.Some sites are easier to adjust on your own than others, so be sure to ask questions before deciding on who you wish to work with.
Content/ ghost writers.....I do understand that not everyone feels comfortable writing their own ads.If you feel the need to hire a content writer please make sure that they make the effort needed to stay true to your personality. And, do not “borrow” from another companions website or ad since it is unethical to do so, and will make you look extremely questionable to the type of clients that you may wish to attract. Content that is free of spelling errors, and offers proper sentence structure is also important since that is after all part of what you are paying for. We all make mistakes, but it is the content writer's job ( not yours)to make sure it is perfect, before anything is ever published.
Ad's and websites aside , I really do feel that it truly is a bad idea to let anyone post as you on a message board . Some people may use your identity to serve their own agenda when disagreements arise. Plus grammar is just like a finger print, we are all so unique in the way we write that it does not take people long to figure out they are not actually responding to the person they thought they were .My guess is it must be kind of creepy if you suddenly realize that the pretty girl in the pictures that you thought you were flirting with is actually someone else. Overall this is not the best way to introduce yourself.
Assistants.... Some women do benefit from having an assistant screen for them, and handle their schedule, but please make sure that is all she/he does, so there will be no conflict of interest there. Please Please Pleeeeaaaase, do your research thoroughly before hiring any assistant, because the information they are trusted with could ruin lives if placed in the wrong hands.
Also, do not let anyone pretend to be you by email, or phone , especially during the screening process. It is unethical, as your client should be made aware that he is giving his personal information to a third party. Some men will shy away from it, many will not, but it is his choice to make, not ours.
Marketing consultant....... Just like website designers, not all consultants are created equal. There are some very savvy people out there who do know the higher end of this business or as best as that end can be understood. But, there are also others who without meaning to manage to do more harm than good . Be very weary of those who offer to boost your popularity in fast, and unethical ways. I have seen some consultants write fake reviews to help their clients launch their new image. This is not a good idea since most men can spot a fake review fairly easy, and insulting their intelligence is a lousy way to make a first impression.. Just like in any business, it can take time to reach a true level of trust, and success, but once you are there that success can last as long as you want it to.. A good consultant will be able to advise you on how to reach your goals the honest way, but will not promise any fool proof short cuts to get there.
There are some great people out there, and they are the ones who truly deserve our business and thanks. I know that my post is a bit long winded, but I would not have taken the time to write this if I did not feel it was truly an important topic to start..Please add to it, as I believe that we all have different ideas, on what is, or is not good , or even ethical , and the more diversified the information the more useful it will hopefully be for others.
Sincerely Katy,
The person formerly known as Becky 
We are both a bit long winded, and many have no idea of what we are attempting to say But if we ever start shooting it sure as hell is not going to be blanks.
