Officer & Hobbiest

skyleigh's Avatar
Opinions please. My new fav client bf is a cop. Safe or playing with fire?
pyramider's Avatar
Coptards need lub, too. There are several ladies on icky that have members of law enforcement as regulars.
FireKitten's Avatar
It's a bit more mental stress, but you should be fine.
joesmo888's Avatar
are you breaking the law? no you are not. it is not illegal to hire an escort for an hour

he has more to be worried about, if his boss finds out he is banging escorts he will lose his job.. if his wife/gf finds out he will get dumped..
I work closely with the police department plus I have friends that are police officers. They get a laugh when I tell of some of my encounters. I and my ATF met one for lunch on the way to Bossier City for lunch she had no idea before hand that we would be meeting a policeman. His only comment later was to remind me of the Mann act. I one time made a date from a squad car.
Don't worry about him being a cop. I seem to remember that a provider married a cop she had been seeing for some time.
cinderbella's Avatar
Police officers are human beings too. I have known some former police officers in the hobby, they were wonderful. I guess there are some cops who hobby who are apparently violent and not to be seen, but as long as you can go into your area private women's lounge, their handles are shared and you find out.

Just don't tell anyone else, especially a female provider about his vocation. Providers are not as understanding and some just outright hate police officers. Not me, as you can tell.

I admire good police officers and anyone else who protects the public while encountering dangerous situations. I would feel honored if someone in that field trusted me like that. If a cop trusts you enough to see you, I think that says a lot of good about your business and self in general.
skyleigh's Avatar
Police officers are human beings too. I have known some former police officers in the hobby, they were wonderful. I guess there are some cops who hobby who are apparently violent and not to be seen, but as long as you can go into your area private women's lounge, their handles are shared and you find out.

Just don't tell anyone else, especially a female provider about his vocation. Providers are not as understanding and some just outright hate police officers. Not me, as you can tell.

I admire good police officers and anyone else who protects the public while encountering dangerous situations. I would feel honored if someone in that field trusted me like that. If a cop trusts you enough to see you, I think that says a lot of good about your business and self in general. Originally Posted by cinderbella

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TheADream's Avatar
Just my opinion, but I think you are playing with fire yes they are people as well with needs just like we do. My suggestion would be to keep it client provider keep the bf part out of it. Intimacy/civilian love brings about emotion.

One emotion could be jealousy either immediately or after you decide to break up with him because he did something that hurt your feelings.

Not everyone gets jealous though but what are the odds that he will? Also something to consider he has knowledge of your business over you to use to his advantage. What collateral do you have over him to balance the playing field? Joesmo888 mentions job/SO for example.

In my opinion it's a game of chance and depends on your risk tolerance. (Mentioned by firekitten) What do you want out of this relationship besides money? Can he / will he get you out of holding or jail if you ever got busted for example?
Leo needs loving also.
SlowHand50's Avatar
To the OP, how did this LEO pass your original screening?
Opinions please. My new fav client bf is a cop. Safe or playing with fire? Originally Posted by skyleigh
Immoral and dangerous.
tia travels's Avatar
Disgruntled ex-boyfriends are no fun.
Disgruntled COP ex-boyfriends are probably worse.
Don't piss him off or break his heart.
Best of luck.
Immoral and dangerous. Originally Posted by Buying a *Way to Heaven
Well hell by most of societies standards, WE are ALL "Immoral and dangerous" . LOL
skyleigh's Avatar
This happened and he got hells mad!!! You were right.
I frequented a young lady that had LE as a client. I was fortunate enough to have the same first name and was able to reap the benefits of mistaken identity. We shared a good laugh about it-the young lady and I-and still are good friends.