http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MLF8SPQ?psc=1
Ive enjoyed toys for many years and some are rather ingenious. This one for example has a bullet and a remote, works well and the remote vibes as well so it gives you a feeling and rythem that you are sharing. Its also quiet so you can enjoy it out at dinner to be a secretly kinky.
Toys and furniture just enhance the experience. After all... who doesnt like a little whip, spank, toy, wax, food, etc....
Its not needed but its just more fun to play with toys at times