20/20

They say hind sight is 20/20... What is one thing you wish you knew about the hobby when you first started that you know now?

What TUMA was

To not use your real name if you're a provider. I was shown the ropes from an experienced provider and after meeting a few of her gentleman friends, I decided to get into it more full time. When I say more full time, I mean just on weekends. But regardless of frequency, she didn't tell me anything about going by a fake name. F&#@$%!

That it's terribly addicting. Not sure if knowing that would have stopped me, but who knows. Sometimes I wish I could turn the clock back.

To not use your real name if you're a provider. I was shown the ropes from an experienced provider and after meeting a few of her gentleman friends, I decided to get into it more full time. When I say more full time, I mean just on weekends. But regardless of frequency, she didn't tell me anything about going by a fake name. F&#@$%! Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

Well Pleasant Surprise certainly is an interesting name.

I wish I had a better idea of how much time I would spend on hobby related things before I started. I read this board too much, it is never a quick call or text to see a girl I want (there are a few exceptions). To keep up with the best experiences you really do need to stay in touch with this site, because girls leave or get burnt out and less fun. New girls come all of the time. Rates and menus change for girls. Everything just changes like in real life.

I should probably put a fair amount of that time back into my personal life.

Instead of two 200$ sessions with an average provider, try one session with an above average provider at400$. and I am not saying the price indicates the performance, it doesnt. Reviews and experience does inform on performance.

Not to let my guard down at all around providers. Take everything they say with a grain of salt. Concentrate on the fantasy and then get out of there!

It's okay to be yourself. There is no reason to lie. Not every gentleman is out to manipulate, discard or take advantage. (Or rather I would teach myself how to tell the difference between the two)

It's okay to enjoy and not be so stiff all the time.

There is no reason to feel guilty about a mutual pleasure.

Dont take it so seriously

Its all about the money

pace yourself

Dont let malwoody review you.....it will cost you!

That it's terribly addicting. Not sure if knowing that would have stopped me, but who knows. Sometimes I wish I could turn the clock back. Originally Posted by luvinkdgrlz

Yup. Either I would have started 20 years sooner or not at all!

to really appreciate the really good providers here today and gone tomorrow, not just off the radar but off this big blue marble!

Three things:

It's cheaper to rent than to buy.

You will always get what you give - and you will always get what you pay for.

The ho stroll has moved online so you need to be discerning.