Has kissing changed?

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  • oden
  • 06-01-2010, 10:17 PM
Has porn changed the way we kiss? A good "French Kiss" used to be a little tongue wrestling inside the mouth, not too invasive, more like a dance. Now it seems like a fight outside the lips is the norm.I have had providers say that this is preferred to prevent the spread of gingivitis but I think that is B.S.

For those more experienced or more up on kissing lore; has kissing changed much over the ages or is this just a porn FAD.
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I can't say for certain, but I know that when I am in a relationship, I kiss differently than when in a provider/client relationship. And it doesn't really have anything to do with different styles of kissing....more of a difference in "being in love" vs. "being in lust" thing.
I really enjoy deep, passionate kissing...just like what you described...a little bit of tongue wrestling but not too invasive. If a gentleman claims he doesn't kiss, or doesn't kiss with tongue, I try to convince him to at least give it a try. I have turned one non kisser into a big time, awesome kisser, and a few I have managed to lure their tongues out.
It's harder for me to enjoy sex without the good kissing....it's not impossible, and I'll respect any boundries, but it is harder!
If you have ever taken a look at the little bit of amatuer porn I've done, you will see the real kissing. I don't care much for the industry porn, it comes off as 'too cold' for me. I like the at home, taken with the home cam you use on Christmas morning porn.
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I really enjoy deep, passionate kissing...just like what you described...a little bit of tongue wrestling but not too invasive. If a gentleman caims he doesn't kiss, or doesn't kiss with tongue, I try to convince him to at least give it a try. I have turned one non kisser into a big time, awesome kisser, and a few I have managed to lure their tongues out.
It's harder for me to enjoy sex without the good kissing....it's not impossible, and I'll respect any boundries, but it is harder!
If you have ever taken a look at the little bit of amatuer porn I've done, you will see the real kissing. I don't care much for the industry porn, it comes off as 'too cold' for me. I like the at home, taken with the home cam you use on Christmas morning porn. Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums
Guys who don't kiss? I literally can't understand that.

One of these years I'm going to book a several hour session with a provider where we do nothing but necking/petting like horny teenagers (at least up until the very end, say a half-hour or so before time's up; if she's a really good kisser I doubt that I'll be able to resist eventually "going for home"). It's my "makeout fantasy date".

Now all I need to do is to find the (un)lucky provider.

Cheers,

bcg
I don't care much for the industry porn, it comes off as 'too cold' for me. I like the at home, taken with the home cam you use on Christmas morning porn. Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums
Christmas Porn!!!! What a concept! It should be a tradition everywhere.
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Christmas Porn!!!! What a concept! It should be a tradition everywhere. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
Agreed, but why stop at Christmas?

Cheers,

bcg
Guys who don't kiss? I literally can't understand that.

One of these years I'm going to book a several hour session with a provider where we do nothing but necking/petting like horny teenagers (at least up until the very end, say a half-hour or so before time's up; if she's a really good kisser I doubt that I'll be able to resist eventually "going for home"). It's my "makeout fantasy date".

Now all I need to do is to find the (un)lucky provider.

Cheers,

bcg Originally Posted by bluffcityguy
Ohhh, that sounds like so much fun. Something like this:
They sat on the couch for what seemed like two seconds and at the same time two days kissing, and holding, and rubbing each other. The new lovers started with a soft, delicate peck on the lips that gave way to parted lips with their tongues dancing and probing each other’s mouths. Slowly the passion built, and he grew bolder. He pressed his body into hers and placed a roving hand under her butt to lift her just enough to get her underneath him……
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Ohhh, that sounds like so much fun. Something like this:
They sat on the couch for what seemed like two seconds and at the same time two days kissing, and holding, and rubbing each other. The new lovers started with a soft, delicate peck on the lips that gave way to parted lips with their tongues dancing and probing each other’s mouths. Slowly the passion built, and he grew bolder. He pressed his body into hers and placed a roving hand under her butt to lift her just enough to get her underneath him…… Originally Posted by OliviaHoward


Cheers,

bcg
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I really enjoy deep, passionate kissing...just like what you described...a little bit of tongue wrestling but not too invasive. If a gentleman claims he doesn't kiss, or doesn't kiss with tongue, I try to convince him to at least give it a try. I have turned one non kisser into a big time, awesome kisser, and a few I have managed to lure their tongues out.
It's harder for me to enjoy sex without the good kissing....it's not impossible, and I'll respect any boundries, but it is harder!
If you have ever taken a look at the little bit of amatuer porn I've done, you will see the real kissing. I don't care much for the industry porn, it comes off as 'too cold' for me. I like the at home, taken with the home cam you use on Christmas morning porn. Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums
Rawr.
to both snatch a kiss and kiss a snatch from you my deal lady
I really enjoy deep, passionate kissing...just like what you described...a little bit of tongue wrestling but not too invasive. If a gentleman claims he doesn't kiss, or doesn't kiss with tongue, I try to convince him to at least give it a try. I have turned one non kisser into a big time, awesome kisser, and a few I have managed to lure their tongues out.
It's harder for me to enjoy sex without the good kissing....it's not impossible, and I'll respect any boundries, but it is harder!
If you have ever taken a look at the little bit of amatuer porn I've done, you will see the real kissing. I don't care much for the industry porn, it comes off as 'too cold' for me. I like the at home, taken with the home cam you use on Christmas morning porn. Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums
to both snatch a kiss and kiss a snatch from you my dear lady Originally Posted by petiteassman

Damn! That's poetic!

Makes my tongue hard...

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