Tried to post something helpful and still got attacked.

I find it kind of sad in the pathetic kind of way and ridiculous that I posted something to be helpful and the attack dogs still got unleashed. I haven't posted for a good while simply trying to avoid the negativity but I see certain elements are still lurking in dark corners waiting to cause negativity.

I was thinking gentlemen would at least say show us the messages or let us hear the voicemail but no, a select group simply decided it must all be made up.

What gets me is why would anyone post a fake sting alert it doesn't even make good sense. If the claim is I simply was trying to stir up trouble then why would I post a fake sting alert to do it? All anyone would have to do is call the provider and ask her if I was making up a false story on her. Which would beg the question why would I make up a false story on a provider and take the risk of being blacklisted by every provider. The moment the provider made it known that I lied on her I would never be able to communicate with anyone on here so why would I risk possibly getting banned. I wouldn't take such a silly risk. I have had horrible providers and I never made up false stories on them ever.

I appreciate those that gave good advice and I am even thankful for those that attacked because at least I know who to avoid.
Oh boy... Can you post the link of the conversation that you are referring to so that I don't have to spend precious time researching the entire story? Thanks a bunch.
ElumEno's Avatar
I believe that he is talking about his Alert that IMO is illogical hogwash... but that is just my completely worthless opinion.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1202871
bp6570's Avatar
Jayhawker, let it go man. Its posts like this one that get the "haters" on you in the first place.

You posted an alert. A lot of guys & gals appreciate your post & will decide for themselves how to use the information. I for one appreciate it.

Now just let it die man.
Jayhawker, let it go man. Its posts like this one that get the "haters" on you in the first place.

You posted an alert. A lot of guys & gals appreciate your post & will decide for themselves how to use the information. I for one appreciate it.

Now just let it die man. Originally Posted by bp6570
lol...thanks for you advice but I am good on this one. If I wasn't ready for the 'haters' I would not have posted. I am not sure what post like this means tho...should I post what you tell me to post. When people say that it makes me think they want to dictate how one should act or what one should say.

Just so you know I do not mind the 'haters' this is an anonymous board we could see each other in real life and never know it. I made this post because I tried to help and it bothered me that I tried to give a heads up and clowns tried to attack.
thebuffmantraples's Avatar
IMO. That thread did serve its purpose, with the info at hand. The rest was speculation and reasoning, again with only the info at hand, as good as expected.

Lots of playful banter. Some very very slight rassing if even that... IMO.


So, don't be that guy.... Come on..now..
zeejoe's Avatar
Karma.
It happens all too often
I read the thread....and I really didn't see alot of 'haters'. I did see a healthy dose of skepticism....and why not, its an anonymous board and we don't really know each other....and parts of the story still don't make sense.

For example, you have stated that the girl/le didn't know which door to knock on....

But later in the thread you state that you gave the girl the address.

Holes in the story legs like that generate questions.

Also, when somebody suggested you quit calling girls to your home, your response was downright snarky.

Its a tough crowd on this board. But not too bad if you can get along with others.
don't worry about it Jayhawker.....appreciate you posting the information and warning as it appeared to you.....it seemed like a valuable warning to me.....keep posting and try not to let the frequent negativity here bother you.
Helicopter206's Avatar
Live and learn, it's comes with the hobby.
I'm still learning.
There's a lot of people on here that read between the lines.
Some post great advice.
And some post a crap load of drama.
JS42's Avatar
  • JS42
  • 10-26-2014, 08:01 PM
There's a lot of people on here that read between the lines.
Some post great advice.
And some post a crap load of drama. Originally Posted by Helicopter206

And which category do you think you fit into?
JRLawrence's Avatar
I find it kind of sad in the pathetic kind of way and ridiculous that I posted something to be helpful and the attack dogs still got unleashed. I haven't posted for a good while simply trying to avoid the negativity but I see certain elements are still lurking in dark corners waiting to cause negativity.

.......... Originally Posted by Jayhawker
Have you ever thought about just stop using your present handle? Perhaps, you could throw it away and start anew.


"A smart man learns from his mistakes, a wise man learns from the mistakes of others."

Good luck,

JR
zeejoe's Avatar
Have you ever thought about just stop using your present handle? Perhaps, you could throw it away and start anew.


"A smart man learns from his mistakes, a wise man learns from the mistakes of others."

Good luck,

JR Originally Posted by JRLawrence
You'll know it's him when he starts a new thread crying about the other thread he just started.
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