References

What's the best way to let providers know bout my references?

You can either include it on your request or if you have P411 they can automatically see your ok's.

look for the term 'Newbie Friendly' that would probably get you in the door at least

Are there any recommendations for quality "newbie friendly" providers? I don't have a P411 profile.

not sure if she's newbie friendly but try

Infamous BJ
http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=51

also

MichelleBigD http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=1369