To Play or Not to Play

Rudyard mentioned the following in a post of his. I thought I would start a thread on the subject.

The more I look around on ECCIE the more I notice men who don't spend time with the ladies. It doesn't really bother me. My feeling is the more the merrier.

So guys, why do you hang out and post if you have no intention of seeing one of the beautiful ladies of ECCIE?

Oh, this should be interesting ...

Well...

...with Becky's and LS's encouragement about masturbation...

...and DG's and PJ's encouragement about bare breasted avatars...

What else do we need?

The more I look around on ECCIE the more I notice men who don't spend time with the ladies. It doesn't really bother me. My feeling is the more the merrier. Originally Posted by Ansley

We have men that do not spend time with ladies????????????????? WTF, I'm posting in a Gay forum?

So guys, why do you hang out and post if you have no intention of seeing one of the beautiful ladies of ECCIE? Originally Posted by Ansley

The majority of the people I hang out with I have never fuc'd. Nor intend to. Golly Damn, maybe I'm hanging out with the wrong group of ladies!



Seriously what you speak of sounds like a review forum or a bathroom stall.



I searched the world over and thought I'd found true love......sorry folks, I can't get Hee Haw out of my head today.

I have hung around without a visit to any lady here (altho abt a year ago I had a massage from someone on ASPD that could have been sexual but was just friendly and non sexual due to my own desire) for the following reasons that I can think of and maybe some reasons i dont know that are deep down in my subconscious:

1. i think abt visiting a lady here

2. i read some of the posts (not just the ones in diamonds and tuxedos) and post myself and its interesting. i know rudyard said there are better places for that but its still available here.

3. I look through the showcases periodically and i like that.

4. I check out my town's ads and showcases and reviews just to check them out and why? maybe its stimulating maybe its i dont know...

5. maybe there will come a time that i will see a woman here and maybe i just want to keep that idea open

Thanks for your comments Nevergaveitathought. I appreciate it.

Seriously what you speak of sounds like a review forum or a bathroom stall. Originally Posted by WTF

Okay WTF, you lost me on this comment. What are you talking about?

I guess I am confused where you came up with your conclusion that many of us don't see the ladies of ECCIE, are we talking only D & T or the complete package of all forums?

Of course when I get the chance I want to jump Tylor.....of course you will tell her about me and she will avoid me for ever...LOL

Thanks for your comments Nevergaveitathought. I appreciate it. Originally Posted by Ansley

well i did say i thought abt seeing a lady here

My best sex has been with SO's (although a few one-night stands were better than some SO's). I stopped seeing escorts and went back to civilians precisely because I did not find sex with escorts to be much like the sex I was used to. Originally Posted by npita

And you're still here?...Why? Intellectual stimulation? There has to be better places than here for that. Originally Posted by Rudyard K

Rudyard mentioned the following in a post of his. I thought I would start a thread on the subject.

The more I look around on ECCIE the more I notice men who don't spend time with the ladies. It doesn't really bother me. My feeling is the more the merrier.

So guys, why do you hang out and post if you have no intention of seeing one of the beautiful ladies of ECCIE? Originally Posted by Ansley

I guess I am confused where you came up with your conclusion that many of us don't see the ladies of ECCIE, are we talking only D & T or the complete package of all forums?
Originally Posted by Woody of TX

I won't dare suggest to define what Ansley meant by "men who don't spend time with the ladies," but the above quotes at least give the origin of the thread. One member pointedly stated he doesn't see providers. This is also someone that post quite a bit/spends a bit of time here. RK asks a fair question, "Why here?"

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Okay WTF, you lost me on this comment. What are you talking about? Originally Posted by Ansley

A place where everyone has fuc'd everyone or wants to fuc everyone is in the review forums or in a bathroom stall! I was checking out my Gall Stone Bile at Flemmings Steakhouse and saw two HDH telly numbers under "For a good time call....."

I guess I am confused Originally Posted by Woody of TX

Just lay down and take a rest. It will pass.

! I was checking out my Gall Stone Bile at Flemmings Steakhouse Originally Posted by WTF

I guess that online cure you downloaded didn't work so well...

I guess that online cure you downloaded didn't work so well... Originally Posted by atlcomedy

Hell no, Obama's Healthcare plan is fuc'd!

I was at the ER again Sunday nite. Boudin and Gall Stones evidently do not go well together. I thought the beer would wash everything down. Those doctors are smarter than I thought they were.

Well...

...with Becky's and LS's encouragement about masturbation...

...and DG's and PJ's encouragement about bare breasted avatars...

What else do we need? Originally Posted by Rudyard K

My work here is done

It's an interesting question Ansley.I often wonder if it is because this is such a small group, and some of the topics can be quite personal.It would almost feel like incest to meet for business.Even most of the women who post here do not appear to be marketing themselves, or at least not in an obvious way. I guess that there are other sites that are better choices for that. Besides who has the time we are too busy masturbating, and discussing health care reform.not to mention three legged dogs who will most likely not be covered under the new health care laws.

I wish I had more time to hobby. My problem isn't desire, I've got a list that might take me two years to fullfill if I had the time. I sometimes have to be spontaneous, so that limits who is available.