Where does everyone prefer to see providers?

For instance your place, their place or motel/hotel? For safety/comfort reasons, whatever. I'm still new to the hobby but myself I rather go to their place. I've seen adds of providers in motels/hotels I'd love to see but for whatever reason hotels/motels make me weary.

The trend seems to be heading back to car dates, city parks and cemeteries. Bringing back memories of a misspent yute and fumbling around in the back seat.

The trend seems to be heading back to car dates, city parks and cemeteries. Bringing back memories of a misspent yute and fumbling around in the back seat. Originally Posted by sexymaid_69

There is something that takes you back to hop in the back seat no doubt but I only resort to a car when there is no incall as I would never invite someone to my place unless I got to know them very well.

Incall no car dates. Amps are good. If reviewd hotels are great.

her house or hotel. done car. not big fan. woods. got mosquito bites on my ass. only outcall girls i trust.

On the issue of provider or SA-SB "incalls" this is where the "established" ECCIE and TOS providers have an advantage over the whole SA scene.....:

If an Eccie or TOS provider has a "good reputation" for Not creating any drama, and she has never been flagged for "incall issues" then she is basically a Guaranteed "safe" session. "Established" providers usually have clean incalls and they manage "traffic" there responsibly so guys don't bump into one another. Although the latter happens sometimes too.....

SA girls? No public review system, no formal Guys Room to report all their incall-weirdness. More chance of a "baby daddy" or "driver" stopping by with a totally un-reviewed SA girl.....

I got "cash and dashed" by an SA girl In....Her.....Own......Apartme nt. Yes, she was Dumb Enough to do it in her own place, with her own mail with her real name lying around. That probably would never happen with an "established" provider with a good rep on Eccie or TOS....

Another SA-Real-Bruiser: I paid and we started getting busy. I requested CFS to BBBJ and back again and she said she wants one or the other, not both. I guess I requested the change once more because- BOOM, she went into Hardcore Linda Blair Exorcist Mode. Kicked me out of her place, and (yep) I had already paid.....

If SA girls have their own incalls and living spaces it is not a "neutral" meeting space, and they might think they can "get away with" more. Won't happen with an "established" Eccie or TOS provider, might happen with an un-reviewed, un-vouched SA girl.....

I rent affordable motel and hotel rooms, ideally with no "drive up to the door" designs (bad for "baby-daddy's" parking and then barging in) and I book two (2) hours so I can get two pops. Luckily many SA girls charge a standard, typical PGH one hour fee for two hours. So the overall freight works-out.....

I want to avoid all FDH's-Feral Defensive Hoodrats. I have witnessed enough of them in their natural urban and rural habitats so I want to avoid seeing them, accept in documentaries.....

Outcall to my hotel. Far and away my favorite. Yes it costs a little more but I have control, I'm not walking into a sting, I don't have to worry about watching the clock and I can pick a hotel and not a cheap motel where everyone can see you.

I stopped going to incalls unless it's an SA girl that I've met before... not worth the risk. I just get a room, or bring them to my office... it's private and in a maze of hallways, they'll never find their way back.