best way to tip or gift your provider

Besides basic ettiquette like shower, shave, be polite, etc. (Dating 101), what is the best way to show your appreciation for your provider? Tip? Gift? Something else? Would you it be out of place to ask your provider?

A gift is obviously planned in advance and probably given upon first meeting. A tip or a larger tip than originally planned might be inspired from the wonderful company shared. If so, how do you suggest that it is best given?

I think all people enjoy receiving gifts but the best single gift is usually a tip. When I receive good service I just leave the amount I think has been earned on a table. I do not say anything but usually the lady sees me setting it down.

This has been discussed many times. While ladies always appreciate a tip (which can be left silently on a table), several experienced ladies have mentioned that the best tip you can give is to schedule the next meeting before you leave. YMMV.

I had a very nice gent gift me a set of Body Shop body butters. Girls like gifts of all sorts.
Pizza and beer are usually what I receive. LOL. Love it.

Pizza and beer are usually what I receive. LOL. Love it. Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

D'Bronx pizza and a good craft beer sound like a great lunch!

here is a gift I got from a special regular of mine....it is on my bedroom shelf for all to see!!!!




I would say that by reading her webpage you should get good ideas....

To me a gift or tip does not determine "how good a session you recieve"...it is just a cool act you do that will make my day even brighter....and also helps open up a more personable experience between us

I was once told by a provider friend of mine that the best gift was the gift of time. If you are done and had a good time know when to leave.

Best way to tip or gift your provider......... Often. lol

It will pay off. A lot...


xo

Have a great safe weekend everyone.

@sometinfishy: You're spot on with the observation here probably most of the time. Who cannot use a little extra money? It can be used for something practical: pay off some college loans, insurance, or car. Or it can be used for savings or for something fun like a nice dinner out, a concert, drinks, or a game of golf (do any girls here play golf?).

@BB: Definitely a return visit is a great 'tip' and is a sign of satisfaction. For me, I think that it would be a little awkward to pull out my calendar and check out times then and there. For dating, don't we say, "I will call you ___ "? Then either we do or we don't. (Myself, I won't say that if I don't mean it.) And then we call later and ask about the possibililty of another date. Afterall, maybe the provider doesn't want to meet with the client again.

@Allie_Kat: I myself would prefer pizza and beer. But then, the gift we are discussing is given by me, not given to me.

@DallasRain: That looks pretty cool (although I am not sure exactly what it is). Sure it might be easy for some people to see a tip/gift as a measure of performance, and you and I both disagree with that. To me, it is a small measure of appreciation and gratitude.

@catnipdipper: I agree that it is always best manners to be aware of not overstepping your time. If you are having a good time with an attractive woman, that can take some serious discipline. Don't guys in real life often get accused of a quick climax and then rolling over and going to sleep when the girl wants some more touch and talk and maybe some Os? Well, maybe a provider/client date is, at least, a little different.

@bustymaryjane: It seems that the right thing to do is to give a gift/tip not in order that I will benefit even more but in a spirit of gratitude (of course that doesn't mean that one is not aware that one's gift might likely be countered with a corresponding measure of gratitude )

i usually get bottles of tequila from one guy , ad another one had a whole bunch of stuff like sum strawberrys candy and lotion from bath and body works but on the down side he was a stalker and that mite have been a red flag but all that "wow youre great" and "omg ur the best" is better said with sum $$$ bills.

I tip regularly and give favorite providers gifts on special occasions (birthdays, Christmas, etc.). I try to tailor the gift to the person and put some thought into it--and no, it isn't always sex toys!