Is there any way to know if you've been blacklisted?

I mean w/o paying any cash.

I've been trying to arrange a date for several weeks with different ladies. Basically, most of the time, I get no response. One time, the lady ran 4 hours (or more, who knows if she was off by 4 hours) late, and I canceled. Another time, the lady upped her fee by 50%. Between those two experiences and the nor response at all to contacts, I'm beginning to think I've been blacklisted by someone.

Charles it is possible you have been bl'd for some reason or t'other. But, other than getting a lady to break confidence or getting one mad enough to post it in the open, I don't know how you'd find out.
Sometimes some mods have access to bl's but they wouldn't tell if you made them live in another realm.

Possible? Yes. Probable? I doubt it. A 4-hour tardy, a fee-jack, and multiple no responses sounds like business as usual for some ladies. Don't take it personally, everyone goes through seasons where it seems the hobby gods are belching smoke in your direction.

I have not heard anything negative said about you babe....you just haven't been lucky enough to find the "right" lady!

Hope you find some fun!!!

I have not heard anything negative said about you babe....you just haven't been lucky enough to find the "right" lady!

Hope you find some fun!!! Originally Posted by DallasRain

Thx. Coooooooool avatar.

i would see you if or when our paths cross...

I mean w/o paying any cash.

I've been trying to arrange a date for several weeks with different ladies. Basically, most of the time, I get no response. One time, the lady ran 4 hours (or more, who knows if she was off by 4 hours) late, and I canceled. Another time, the lady upped her fee by 50%. Between those two experiences and the nor response at all to contacts, I'm beginning to think I've been blacklisted by someone. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Were they ladies that may have read your posts on the forum?

Were they ladies that may have read your posts on the forum? Originally Posted by Lauren Summerhill

With so many lurkers here, it is hard to tell. However, none were ladies that have posted here that I know of.

Are you saying, either obliquely or not so obliquely, that I've made a bunch of DNS lists for the ladies that post here? [Can't find the **shrug** smiley.]

If that's the case, I might as well activate the BP website.

It's not uncommon if a woman doesn't like a gent's posting style, or feels that his opinions of women in the industry are less then desirable, she refuses to see him. If you're giving your screen name and the woman looks you up - that could be a problem.

However, in the case of a woman running late - well she still took the date. Same with the woman who upped her fee by 50% (did she tell you why?).

So that my not mean black list.

Some women are known for being terrible with email responses.

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Some women are known for being terrible with email responses. Originally Posted by Lauren Summerhill

You mean the ones with few regulars?

I heard "charlestudor2011" is getting laid several times a day...

I heard "charlestudor2011" is getting laid several times a day... Originally Posted by atlcomedy

First, you must have spent the whole day getting used to writing 2011 for after the first of the year.

Second, you know the value of hearsay...I'm surprised you gave it any credence at all.

I would not worry about it Charles.Chances are as Lauren already mentioned some of the women are not very good at answering their emails especially if they have plenty of business at that moment, or have decided to take some time off. Both situations are very common for this time of year.It's a very short sighted way of doing things, but it is also very common.

I doubt you are on any black lists especially for the two situations that you mentioned . I am not sure how other escorts see them, but I have always felt like black lists/white lists /any lists lol are a lot like reviews always to be taken with a big grain of salt.

I am not sure how other escorts see them, but I have always felt like black lists/white lists /any lists lol are a lot like reviews always to be taken with a big grain of salt. Originally Posted by Becky

How true. I was put on a blacklist by a lady I have never even met, but then again this lady has a reputation for posting frivolous alerts.