I work with a provider in RW

Not gonna say who and she doesn't know who I am but I know who she is. What should I do? I'd like to schedule an appointment cause she's hot but then what? I'm stumped.

It could be a double edge sword. You'll know about her and she'll about you. I'd say set up the aptmnt, you might get the coworker discount. Just keep it business.

Not gonna say who and she doesn't know who I am but I know who she is. What should I do? I'd like to schedule an appointment cause she's hot but then what? I'm stumped. Originally Posted by deldez

Leave it the fuck alone. Don't shit where you eat.

You don't have to stick your dick in every chick that you fancy.

Get over her.

Agree with Simon this could become a sticky situation

If you may pass each other in the halls occasionally or share an elevator once in a blue moon but work in completely different departments...and there is a good chance she wouldn't recognize you anyways...and you both are on equal strata in the corporate world...and she has an impeccable reputation...and you are confident you are mature enough to keep the hobby and your work as far divorced as you can...then maybe?

Or just keep it simple and stay out of a potentially sticky (in all the bad ways) situation.

Yeah, sex in the business place is cool, until it isn't. And then it sucks. Other fish in the sea. Find another lake to fish in.

Make a list of at least 2 dozen established providers.... put your target lady at the bottom of the list.

t your current rate of reviews, it will take a year or two to get to the "bottom" target. Maybe you will by then have a better idea of the risk vs. reward!

Agree with Simon. Nuff said.

Deldez, why don't you pay for me to have a session with her. Then, we can meet for a beer and I'll tell you all the juicy details. You can relive the experience vicariously through me.

I'll buy the beer.

It'd be very uncool if you were to try and schedule with her especially if the girl is trying to also make an honest living in the RW.

You do have options.

Here is one thing you are not considering: making an appointment does not equate to an actual appt. What makes you think that, once you show up, you will actually end up in her pants? Chances are extremely high she will be very upset you tried to do this. You will be putting her in a very difficult situation at work, because now she will know someone knows. Why complicate hers and your life?

I can tell you that, if a past coworker showed up at my door, we would be having some words if he had done this on purpose. If accidental, an appt would not take place either way.

If you two work closely together where she knows you and you know her name then no go. If you can get away with scheduling and actually seeing her then go for it. You wouldn't be the first person to get to know a provider in RW, just make sure you and her are on the same page in regards to an agreed arrangement. Basically, as long as you can keep your job and keep the hobbying separate then go for it. Just be upfront with her and she will let you know if she's ok with it or not. Is she UTR and what type of work industry/field is this work environment in btw?

Would it be out of the question to chat her up for a civilian encounter?

Id do it.. But hell I think the excitement would be worth a slap..

I certainly hope the OP knew that airing this public now puts said provider on alert in her RW. Seeing as all providers can see your post, she will be amongst them. That was your hope, wasn't it? Grade school, but mildly effective. My hobby life is completely separate from anything to do with my RW. Any mix of any kind of the two is a complete no go. I give the same respect to providers. You should too. Treat her as any civilian in the HEB... and move on.