Good Faking or Real Passion?

Ok men, which do you want from a lady? I'm only asking this because I'm curious and my life is filled to the rim with unnecessary questions.

When with a lady do you expect a real connection, real orgasms, real...whatever? Or are you satisfied with her acting skills to make you think she's really enjoying it and ignore the constant eye rolling she hopes you don't see?

Lie to me in 3...2...1...

I think the "illusion of intimacy" describes it best. Sexy Brittany introduced me to that and was always able to convince me I was something special..........until my watch beeped that it was time to go.

I agree with XCowtoy it's the illusion of intimacy and Brittany was the queen lol... I love reading in all the reviews oh she had like 5-O's lol. I'll believe it when I'm offered freebies (has happened)... When that happens I'll believe the illusion

For me it's different with every girl. I pop a lot faster with some enthusiasm from the girl but faster is not always what I want.
My regular is not verbal at all but will try all kinds of new things which is fun.

I dont mind some acting, but for me its the overacting that kills it. I hate this move--A provider who instantly starts porno moans on first insertion. Im usually thinking, "settle the fuck down bitch. We just started. Give it a while before you start those style of moans." Usually, i see that in BP ladies. It drives me nuts.

I dont mind some acting, but for me its the overacting that kills it. I hate this move--A provider who instantly starts porno moans on first insertion. Im usually thinking, "settle the fuck down bitch. We just started. Give it a while before you start those style of moans." Usually, i see that in BP ladies. It drives me nuts. Originally Posted by Iridemhard

LMAO

Double lmao

In a perfect world, there would be real passion. Since we live in this messy world instead, I'm more than happy with leaving a session feeling like I had a real connection with the provider and we both greatly enjoyed the time together. Convince me of that and we're good to go! As mentioned above, faking too much tends to spoil the mood.

I actually got a HJ while a provider was talking to her boyfriend on the phone.
You all may gasp but
It was dang sexy

I dont mind some acting, but for me its the overacting that kills it. I hate this move--A provider who instantly starts porno moans on first insertion. Im usually thinking, "settle the fuck down bitch. We just started. Give it a while before you start those style of moans." Usually, i see that in BP ladies. It drives me nuts. Originally Posted by Iridemhard

Amen!

And don't tell me how "big" I am... I know I'm not. So smile, relax and at least pretend you're not doing your taxes in your head.

I have had the joy of being in 2 providers that used me to orgasm. The best experiences in my hobby life.

if it's good faking, how am i to know? or you frenchie?

anyway, if i'm left with the impression that a lady likes erotic experiences and she'll let me in to share and play along, that feels way more convincing and fun than trying to act like i turn her on

If we really look at this hobby there is no "real" passion in it. The ladies are after one thing and I've never heard of a passionate way to lay down an envelope. The client is after one thing, relief. The relief may come in the form of the illusion that the beautiful lady he is with "wants" him. It may be the fulfillment of a desired fantasy. It may be the ego boost of feeling he is a great lover. It may be as simple as having a conversation with a beautiful lady that leads to more intimate satisfaction. But the fact still remains there is no "real passion".

For the provider it is a job, a way to pay bills, a way to earn money that pays better than being a waitress. For the client this hobby fills a void, it provides something that is missing in real life. The top shelf providers know how to fill this void and make it look real or natural.....that's why they are top shelf.....the best. Their clients always leave feeling like there is more to their meeting than paying for companionship but they know they must not interfere with her "business". If the lady is good the client feels like "THEY" have a special connection, that he is special to her and the envelope is just to show his appreciation. I am not fool enough to think I can "impress" a lady with my sexual skills when she will have X number of suitors the same day.

If the lady and the client by some freak of nature do happen to click that is great and she gets double enjoyment from that client. If they don't naturally click and she does her part then the client will never know the difference. She will leave with what she is after and the client will leave with what he perceives to be the satisfaction of a filled void......no more no less. Just my .02

I actually got a HJ while a provider was talking to her boyfriend on the phone.
You all may gasp but
It was dang sexy Originally Posted by splitlog

that actually sounds like a gas.

well till he shows up with his shotgun!

If we really look at this hobby there is no "real" passion in it. The ladies are after one thing and I've never heard of a passionate way to lay down an envelope. The client is after one thing, relief. The relief may come in the form of the illusion that the beautiful lady he is with "wants" him. It may be the fulfillment of a desired fantasy. It may be the ego boost of feeling he is a great lover. It may be as simple as having a conversation with a beautiful lady that leads to more intimate satisfaction. But the fact still remains there is no "real passion".

For the provider it is a job, a way to pay bills, a way to earn money that pays better than being a waitress. For the client this hobby fills a void, it provides something that is missing in real life. The top shelf providers know how to fill this void and make it look real or natural.....that's why they are top shelf.....the best. Their clients always leave feeling like there is more to their meeting than paying for companionship but they know they must not interfere with her "business". If the lady is good the client feels like "THEY" have a special connection, that he is special to her and the envelope is just to show his appreciation. I am not fool enough to think I can "impress" a lady with my sexual skills when she will have X number of suitors the same day.

If the lady and the client by some freak of nature do happen to click that is great and she gets double enjoyment from that client. If they don't naturally click and she does her part then the client will never know the difference. She will leave with what she is after and the client will leave with what he perceives to be the satisfaction of a filled void......no more no less. Just my .02 Originally Posted by clydesdale

very well said.
i'd give you more than 2 cents for that.
but no more than treefiddy