3) Cuckold. Nothing too kinky or anything. I don't want to clean up another guy or anything, but I want to sit and watch while a woman talks some trash to me. Not sure why. I think it's hot.
Originally Posted by MrMalone
"You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."
--Inigo Montoya [
The Princess Bride]
Strictly speaking, what you describe here is not being cuckolded (unless there's more to your fantasy you left out of that brief description).
A "cuckold" is the husband of an adulterous wife. In the fetish sense, during "cuckolding" the cuckold participates in his wife's cheating, usually by being assenting to, being present at, and witnessing the act of adultery. Some form of verbal abuse of the cuckold may or may not happen (I suppose; I'm not into that lifestyle myself).
Now, if your wife is the lady talking trash to you, while being fucked by someone-who-is-not-you, that's being cuckolded. And if she doesn't talk trash to you but is still being fucked by someone-who-is-not-you, that's also being cuckolded. But just having some woman (your wife or not) talking trash at you... Well, I'm sure there's a name for it, but "cuckold" isn't it. (I suspect many married guys here would refer to one's wife talking trash to them as simply "being married".
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Cheers,
bcg