Looks/Appearance or Great Reviews or a Combination

Ok I have been in this "hobby" as a provider for a very long time but I just really became aware of how the"review system" kinda works a little over a year ago. And the turns that this hobby has taken lately have caused me to wonder if hobbiest/clients actually take a girls reviews into great consideration or is it only or mostly about the providers looks/appearance? Just curious if you read these types of praises about a provider would that intice you into booking with her??...i.e. Activities: GFE ++69, Daty,Mish, RCG, SBYS,Dirty talk,BBBJx2,Greek,DFK face sitting,Doggie... Talked to _____ a few times befor seeing her. She went out of her way to make me feel comfortable and relaxed. When i got to her location she did the same. She started out with soft DFK and then went stright in to 69 i was in Heaven. After a few min. she moved down to RCG, the view was to die for. Some side by side and finished up in Mish. with dirty talk the whole time. She maded me feel like we had a long time relationship. Her GFE was GREAT!!!! i.e. Activities: GFE, BBBJ + BLS (several times throughout), Mish, CG, RCG, 69, DATY, good conversation, Greek (my 1st time,guided me through), Doggie...Her pictures really don't do her justice, she's even prettier in person. She's really cool , nice to talk to. Great attribute is that she really aims to please. etc...etc... I guess also my question is what would make a hobbiest have to see a particular girl inspite of whatever he may have going on in his day and/or in his wallet? I hope this is in the right forum... if not my genuine apologies!

Attitude trumps all.

I can only speak for myself, but I start with pics. I have a certain look that I like (or 2 or 6, lol), but I start there.

I try to stick to ladies that post here. That way, I kind of know their attitude to begin with.

Next I look at activities to see if there is a deal killer (and there are some).

I don't have PA so for the most part, it's a crap shoot. But I do try to stay with ladies with excellent reputations. They don't necessarily have any reviews at all, but are well known to provide excellent service without drama.

Pictures get my attention! The reviews get me to PM or call!

If I am not physically attracted to a provider, I will generally pass her by. However,there have been occasions when I took a second look based upon posts and reviews from credible mongers.

The reviews have to be from a known monger or so well written that you can tell they are true. From the reviews I glean attitude and performance.

Hope this helps.

Awl4knot

Looks are the very first thing which captures my attention... but a proven record of consistency in playful attitude and outstanding sexual performance is what puts her on my "to do" list!
Although... I will admit... on rare occasions... simple board presence has convincingly seduced me!

I have seen many photos of super-hott females.... only to be steered away after reading multiple questionable/negative reviews!! * Happens often, when I research hott photos....

I first look at her pics. If she's my type, I'll read up on activities. Then I will read whatever "fiction" is written about her dates. However, sometimes, I will begin my search on P411 by filtering in certain activities. That way I don't waste my time looking at dozens of hot chicks only to find out her services don't match my wants/needs.

I also wonder wich of these things take presedence in a studio environment or if either of them even matter in a studio?

I never do the studio thing....

1) face and body - if that is acceptable, then....
2) body features - i.e. extreme body art, etc - if that is acceptable, then....
3) quality of profile pics... I am not interested in the "reflection in the mirror" self pics
4) provider comments and verbiage / grammar used - if spelling and grammar are screwy, then I move on...
5) reviews
6) location, in call description from provider and from reviews
7) web site and design.... the "flash sites" are kinda cheap looking....

All in all, I look for continuity - a consistent level of quality in items #1-#7 are key indicators for me to make a call....

IMHO, there are so many providers out there that almost everyone can find their perfect match...

I take it all into consideration...pics get a guy's attention, but then the real homework starts. Maybe smokin hott in the looks dept but if she has bad reviews or no reviews I pass. I have gotten alot of good information about ladies on this site as most of us give up front and honest information about our experiences. Also, alot of information can be gotten in a thread like this as ladies chime in with their thoughts which can give you a good idea of her personality and over all attiude in general. PS your avatar pic peaks my interest!!!

I never do the studio thing....

1) face and body - if that is acceptable, then....
2) body features - i.e. extreme body art, etc - if that is acceptable, then....
3) quality of profile pics... I am not interested in the "reflection in the mirror" self pics
4)provider comments and verbiage / grammar used - if spelling and grammar are screwy, then I move on...
5) reviews
6) location, in call description from provider and from reviews
7) web site and design.... the "flash sites" are kinda cheap looking....

All in all, I look for continuity - a consistent level of quality in items #1-#7 are key indicators for me to make a call....

IMHO, there are so many providers out there that almost everyone can find their perfect match... Originally Posted by Roothead

That just eliminated half the board lol. Don't say that crap too loud though...some guys are just here to get laid and any hole will do. You can't come in here making sense ya know.

Attitude trumps all. Originally Posted by pyramider

I review on eccie and TER and my appearance scores I leave on TER are always a combination of her physical beauty and attitude. I might give a lady who is a 6 or 7 on the outside an 8 because of her great attitude. Or I have given ladies who are 8's or 9's on the outside a 6 because their bad attitude made then less attractive.

Pictures get my attention! The reviews get me to PM or call! Originally Posted by Still Looking

Same here, I've had my world rocked by just as many girl-next-door types as Super Models. The reviews tell all. And actually recommendations from other hobbyist carry more weight than reviews do.

That just eliminated half the board lol. Don't say that crap too loud though...some guys are just here to get laid and any hole will do. You can't come in here making sense ya know. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Hahahahahaha! So true.

Anyway, I there has to be some minor attraction but the reviews and services will be the icing on the cake.
I think a guy would see a less attractive provider (average - not ugly) with great service etc. than a hottie with below average service.

* Pictures draw my aesthetic interest.

* Attitude and board presence (if she has one, some just post ads and nothing more) draw my intellectual interest.

* Reviews and services draw my carnal interest.

If she meets 2 out of 3, I will contact her for more information.

If she meets all 3, I will contact her for info and screening requirements.


It should be noted that at any given time, one of those 3 may be weighted more than the others, depends on which head is doing the driving. But, if I'm looking for a lady who I think may be worth repeat visits, she must pass all 3 criteria.

I have been told by many of my clients that attitude trumps all other aspects