P411 can the OK's be used to screen me?

I moved to Houston 18 months ago and signed up for p411. I have 18 OK’s so I assumed this makes it easy for the ladies to verify me. Up North I used room service 2000 and they let the ladies know I’m not LE. Sometimes one would ask me for references and I’d send them.

Since I’ve been in p411 no one has asked me for references. I have seen ladies looking at my profile and I know they sometimes contact women I’ve seen.

I asked one of the touring ladies (I won’t give out her name but you may PM me) when they would be back in Houston. A week or so later I get a PM in p411 asking if I have 2 independent provider references from no more than 2 months ago that I can contact via eccie/p411 PM for screening?

So I sent the top two OK’s names and their cell numbers. I thought this weird since she can see this in p411. She didn’t like this and asked me what date did you last see each provider? And please send links to their profiles!

I’m now mobile and did’t want to do this work for her and told her she had the ability to do it herself and that’s why I belong to p411. I then told her if this was too much trouble for her to let me know and I’ll stop bugging her.

Well, I now get a PM back telling me how rude I am and and she didn’t like being talked to like a child and this is how she screens.

So I then told her to put me on her don’t call list.

Was I wrong? Maybe I don’t understand how p411 works.

Also, I don have some OK’s from 6 months ago should I just delete them and keep only ones from the last three months?

You did good. She's BSC.

Only bad part is bsc = great fuck.

Do not delete okays unless you are embarrassed about seeing that one....or she lands on a blacklist for some reasons i won't list.

Dont delete your ok's

Dont delete your ok's except the ones GS mentioned. Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

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She seems like the rude one in my opinion.



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@ skismx5

Definitely don't delete your ok's as everyone else has commented. She was rude and could of been handled differently. Now as to giving out references. Most providers will not accept another provider contacting them by phone. Whether it be calling or texting. Most providers will only accept a PM from Eccie or by emailing. Some providers will only get pissed if you give out their phone number when they don't even list it publicly.

But if you give a provider the exact "handle" as it is listed on here, to make it easy to look up. Then that should be good enough. But if you miss just one piece of information for us to look up your reference, then that just makes things longer for us and trying to screen you to set up a time for a visit.

Hope this helps.
Stay safe & play hard!

Screw her bro. She's the one being rude. I have my ok's on p411 for ladies to check and screen. That's why I bought the membership for. It's her job to screen to her own comfort level not you.

I don't understand why some ladies would prefer for me to pick the references they contact. Why let me cherrypick 2 girls I know will give me a glowing reference?

It seems to me that between my reviews and my okays they have all the information they need to reach out to whomever they choose.

If I am ever asked for references I provide them with a link to my review history and let them know that they are welcome and encouraged to contact anyone they wish from it. On P411 I do the same but refer to my Okay list. P411 makes it even easier for them as they can click directly from your profile to send a girl a PM who has okay'd you in the past.

Dont delete your ok's.

I see a trend here.

Don't delete your okays. The whole point of getting okays is to make screening easier for us (providers). I could understand if your last okay was older than 6 months but besides that she sounds like the rude one.

If your ok's aren't recent then they do you no good...

If your ok's aren't recent then they do you no good... Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

....if you want to see me. finished it for you.

i see no point to delete okay's, they don't come cheap. a long history of ok's can be useful in the screening process.

Each provider makes her own "standard" of what date is acceptable to them.
Do not delete your okay's.

And yes, she was being rude.
It is her job to do her own screening, not yours. You have done what you are supposed to do.
Sounds like someone needs a midol, ha!

Delete everything.
They are coming for you.