MORALS - PRIDE - PROVIDING - COMPETITION

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Its funny how in many ways society looks down on the hobby/providing as a MORAL injustice. In most situations this is led by the PRIDE of women in society that consider themselves morally above a woman that falls into this profession via circumstance or choice.


You have the professional woman who says she would never stoop so low, or the religous housewife with a husband and stable home that say these women are morally wrong and damned to hell. Mainstream society looks down on the providers as uneducated, usually drug addicted women that went wrong and now are using the only thing they have left to exploit mens weakness for immoral sex.

So along comes HARD TIMES. The economy goes south, the husband gets laid off, the professional woman has lost that executive postion she once held, and these once proud and morially convicted women now turn to the profession just yesterday they looked down at. Yesterday they sat in judgement and today they are posting their first ad as a NEW PROVIDER on the scene. Now the proud woman is COMPETITION to the lady she once looked down on as a lost soul. What a difference a day makes, so the saying goes
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Nice thread!!

I am not one to talk about "moral" issues,but will say that what a woman chooses to do with her body should be her choice...If you can "still get your groove on",then "get your groove on"
Generally speaking, mainstream society will always turn their noses up to anything they don't understand or deem immoral.

in the words of dallas... highway to helllll yeah!!!!
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They paying my BILLS??
Depends. Second wave feminism cursed the sex industry for being demeaning and degrading. However, as we have moved into third wave feminism, women have taken back this industry as one that is empowering. I really have to agree with that idea. Providing to me is an absolute aphrodisiac, because I find myself to be completely in control, whether or not it's a sesh where I'm more submissive or dominant. What is more empowering than a man paying you hundreds of dollars to hang out with you and then exiting your life until he wants to give you hundreds of dollars again to hang out? I can't think of a single man who wouldn't love that for himself.
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  • BIG C
  • 04-30-2010, 11:18 AM
They paying my BILLS?? Originally Posted by annie@christophers
Nope.....

Depends. Second wave feminism cursed the sex industry for being demeaning and degrading. However, as we have moved into third wave feminism, women have taken back this industry as one that is empowering. I really have to agree with that idea. Providing to me is an absolute aphrodisiac, because I find myself to be completely in control, whether or not it's a sesh where I'm more submissive or dominant. What is more empowering than a man paying you hundreds of dollars to hang out with you and then exiting your life until he wants to give you hundreds of dollars again to hang out? I can't think of a single man who wouldn't love that for himself. Originally Posted by Jacquie
Pussy always has been and always will be the most empowering substance on the planet.....If you're a member of any of the Christianity Religion Sectors, just go back to that whole Garden of Eden thing and just ask yourself "Would Adam had taken a bite of that apple if it had been another swinging dick telling him to do it?".....When man was running things on his own, he was happy, peaceful and content.....So God (who I'm thoroughly convinced HAS to be a female) had to take that away from him because she just couldn't stand it.....Thus, one night while he was asleep, she came down and removed one of his ribs and used it to create an entity in her own likeness and she called it "woman".....Then, God decided that she would do something to ensure that man is forever tortured by giving him a second head (which she affixed approximately 3 or 4 feet below the head on his shoulders).....Now, where else but in the evil and twisted mind of a female could there be the horrible concept of giving a man two heads, locate them on opposite ends of his torso, make their agendas to be basically polar opposites (so that they will always clash), but only provide enough blood and oxygen to operate one brain at a time (and we ALL know which brain will win the battle).....Eve told Adam that if he ever wanted any more of her goodies, then he'd best bite that apple and so he did, regardless of instructions from God that he should never partake of the forbidden fruit.....Pussy made man disobey an order from the Supreme Being so you know damn well it will make him do anything else that she wants him to do.....Sex is empowering for you because you gotz da pussy and we needz it.....It doesn't matter anything about the economy.....Men have shown throughout their entire history that they will sacrifice everything that they have if it means getting laid by a beautiful, YOUNG, HOTT, FINE, SEXY babe that knows HOW TO FUCK his brains out.....

Generally speaking, mainstream society will always turn their noses up to anything they don't understand or deem immoral.

in the words of dallas... highway to helllll yeah!!!! Originally Posted by LAVixian
You have to remember that our nation was founded by people who brought over their old Puritan beliefs that people should only fuck when they get married, and only on Friday night with the lights turned out, and then only for procreation, and they shouldn't receive any pleasure out of it, especially if they're females.....Everyone is supposed to work and toil and labor from sun up til sun down, then eat dinner at the family table, spend hours reading their bible, and then off to bed early so they can arise with the sun to do the next day's chores.....The Puritans were always afraid that someone, somewhere, somehow might be having some fun and they wanted to put a stop to it.....Kinda like those fucking Jehovah's Witnesses or other religious zealouts who are always sending me this religious propoganda, or always knocking on my door trying to get me to do shit as their mission is to save my soul.....The propoganda gets immediately sent to File 13, and the zealouts that show up at my door get a religious cussin' out (and the last time one came onto my property I happened to be watering plants so I turned the hose on them.....Probably was rude, but it was also oh so satisfying.....lol
Pussy always has been and always will be the most empowering substance on the planet... Originally Posted by BIG C
I think it comes second to money.

Either way, if you have either one, you can get the other.
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I think it comes second to money.

Either way, if you have either one, you can get the other. Originally Posted by cpi3000
As a client of mine once said... "Women have all the pussy and 1/2 of the money. Pretty soon they will have all the money too!"
"SLICKBACK"'s Avatar
Philmore Slim the original Hollywood Pimp told it like it was, "In hard times a man will buy pussy before cotton or corn" and "HARDTIMES will turn the most moral of a housewife, nurse, or teacher into a whore".
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  • BIG C
  • 04-30-2010, 02:49 PM
As a client of mine once said... "Women have all the pussy and 1/2 of the money. Originally Posted by docdavid49
I first heard that as a kid when I was listening to some old Richard Pryor records (now that should tell you how long ago that was since nobody has records anymore).....

Philmore Slim the original Hollywood Pimp told it like it was, "In hard times a man will buy pussy before cotton or corn" and "HARDTIMES will turn the most moral of a housewife, nurse, or teacher into a whore". Originally Posted by "SLICKBACK"
Well, I don't know Philmore Slim but I do know a truism when I hear it, and that's about as true a truism that I've ever heard and one that I've stated on many occasions....Men will make any kind of sacrifice to get pussy, that's the way it's always been and that's the way it will always be.....
lol, your right big c, but you gotta love the zealots, good job with the hose, i just always opened the door and asked them if they knew where i could find some good dick. they leave pretty quick.
Philmore Slim the original Hollywood Pimp told it like it was, "In hard times a man will buy pussy before cotton or corn" and "HARDTIMES will turn the most moral of a housewife, nurse, or teacher into a whore". Originally Posted by "SLICKBACK"
What do you know about Philmore Slim? Lol...

Morals: We all have them. Providing or not, we all have limits to what we will and won't do for money. Doctors that don't believe in abortions wouldn't be first in line for a job @ an abortion clinic.

Pride: We have all had to swallow it sometimes. The decisions that we are sometimes forced to make does not change the intensity of the pride we have within ourselves. Ever heard of the saying, "Doing what I have to do until I can do what I want to do."

Providing: The regular "working woman" and the "mainstream media" can only see what is shown on the surface. Many of us providers are just as educated, poised, and goal-oriented as anyone else. If you are strong-minded and firm with your beliefs then no one can belittle you into feelings of low self-worth. You are what you say you are...and I feel like a Superstar! (especially always being the topic of discussion when I turn on the TV)

The media needs to realize how drastic they have made this industry. The latest happenings in the escort business have been extremely important and needed to be brought to peoples' attention, BUT, not everyone knew about the "adult section" of sites like CL until the media put it out there. Now every Tom, Dick, and Harry wants to buy and sell "goods." So are we, the providers, to blame? Hmmm, I don't think so.

Just my .02 cents.
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Eloquently spoken Ms Sasha.
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Just what she (sasha) said !!!..
Ms Sasha you are indeed a Superstar! Very well said Luv!

For me this was more choice then circumstance and in a way it is my way of standing up for my right to do as I please with my own body.

IMHO it is usually the ones who cry the loudest about what someone else is doing that have the most skeletons to hide.