How to give good oral to a woman

Alright ladies, my SO is not the best communicator, but I am making an effort to be the best 'giver' of oral that I can be. So what are the winning strategies for becoming a better head giver? Are there some links on the net, or some secrets of the trade you can share that will leave her thinking 'holy fuckin shit I did not know being eaten out could feel that good'. Where and how should I begin?

Guys, feel free to chime in here as well....
most I have found like to just have the clit flicked with the tip of your tongue .. lightly ...
I always love when a guy will lay his head on my thigh and just lightly lick me. Lick the clit, lick between the lips.. no fingers necessary unless she asks.. make sure if you use fingers that your nails are cut short and buffed so they don't cut her. Anyway, it takes time, so as long as you are patient, just keep there and lick slowly.. not necessarily lightly... until she cums. You can always ask her what works for her. Every woman is different in what they like. Don't be afraid to ask.
its a skill that few master, but yes every woman is different. the idea is to try different movements down low and see which she responds best to. be slow and gentle but also change speeds of what your doing to keep her guessing. bring her to the edge and slow down..........hmm, all this talk about think i need me some daty........wheres my atf!
I was once told "Lick the alphabet."

I've generally had positive responses from following that guideline.
When getting a bj, most of it seems to be enthusiasm that dictates how 'good' it really is. With women it seems like you said requires patience and a slower pace. Is that correct? Ignoring porn vids, how long do the oral sessions typically last?
Oral on me can take 15-20 minutes. I may be different than other ladies. I dunno. I gave oral to a woman recently (my first time) and it took all of maybe 3 minutes LOL It just took longer for me to get my orgasm than it did her. So yes, every woman is different. Just give her all the time she needs to get there and she will be so happy.
Wow there really is an app for that -_-
http://elitedaily.com/news/technolog...icking-phones/

Lol Originally Posted by CompanionSofia
Just the fact that you're aware of this app is incredibly hot Sofia. Talk about a woman that takes her work seriously!
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  • 03-09-2014, 11:15 PM


I highly recommend picking this up. I wound up reading it in one sitting. Dispelled a lot of myths and upped my game in a big way. Applying the techniques, I've had a couple providers squirt who had never squirted before.

However, communication with a patient and understanding woman will teach you more than any book, IMHO.
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most I have found like to just have the clit flicked with the tip of your tongue .. lightly ... Originally Posted by cockofold
You've got it about right.

SKOUT! get over here! Lol let me find out you have the magic tounge, I definitely want a ride.

Xoxo Mya Michelle
I was once told "Lick the alphabet."

I've generally had positive responses from following that guideline. Originally Posted by Bad_Mojo
Sam Kinneson was greatness
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  • 03-10-2014, 01:16 PM
SKOUT! get over here! Lol let me find out you have the magic tounge, I definitely want a ride.

Xoxo Mya Michelle Originally Posted by VIP Mya Michelle
LOL. See my website for my rates.
Book bought and download in progress. I will be the tongue master in no time. Only questionsnow is who am I going to practice on