Incall or Outcall? This is for the ladies & gents....

Do most of you guys prefer Incall or Outcall? Which helps you feel more comfortable?

Do most of you ladies prefer Incall or Outcall? Which helps you feel more safe?

I provide both, but would love to have an insight from others opinions.....

XOXO
Nikki

Incall

Incall, but hotel incall only with a provider I know.

Outcall to my house. Feel more safe in my comfort zone

I like both. I used to be a snob about not offering incalls, because I got the impression outcall-only meant high end and incall providing meant somehow inferior (guys, whether fairly or not, associate incall with higher volume, but as a low volume girl, I've mastered the art of points programs/savvy Priceline use etc, I'm currently at a nice 3.5 star I got for $150/2 nights in Baton Rouge). Now that I travel a ton, it's so much easier to offer incall, so I don't get frazzled driving around cities I don't know, where I can't estimate traffic time as accurately as my native Boston and cities I know better. I also often elect not to rent a car to save $, as long as I'm within a cab ride of common outcall locations. I found that months upon months of being an outcall only provider in my native Boston made it so I'd have flurries of business (Boston Marathon fe), and MASSIVE dry spells of work. By offering incall, you open yourself up to local clientele. I generally consider one hour incall guys who want lunch break quickies the bottom rung of clientele in general (more likely to write a bitchy review and expect u to jump hoops to cater to them on short notice.) But since I've gotten over my anti-incall hang up in the last 6 or so months, I've found myself much happier and business far more consistent. I usually offer incall 2 days a week; since I'm low volume it's not exactly sustainable full time (and I don't wanna waste all my rent money!) It can be challenging in areas like downtown DC and Manhattan that are legit 300+ per night on a regular basis. But I've found good deals/timing in cities like Houston and here in Baton Rouge; New Orleans tends to be pretty affordable; depending what you charge, one appointment makes back the overhead plus 2x more (ish).

Definitely outcall for me. It's much more comfortable and relaxed. Incalls can be very stressful and are much more of an impersonal setting. I've had several experiences in airport- area hotels that were less than ideal sessions for me; I'm leaning more and more to outcall only unless it's really exceptional circumstances.

My incall is very inviting.

My incall is very inviting. Originally Posted by SknyDiva

Better than an airport area hotel with maids (or worse) knocking on the door at the wrong time?

Or walking IN!

I have always preferred outcall. I hate having to worry about hotel staff noticing traffic to my room. Even though I am pretty low-volume and only see a few clients a day and make sure they are very spaced out it totally stresses me out when I travel. I don't have to worry about that when I'm home in Houston because we have many notels that have 2-hour rates. The purpose of these places is pretty much for quick hook-ups/sex so you don't have to worry about the staff/owners. Plus, I don't have to sit in a motel all day waiting and I get a fresh room every time.

I have a really discrete and cool incall near uptown....so I prefer that.But i will do outcall if requested.It is just easier to have everything ready to go at my place rather than lugging my toy suitcasee in a taxi to an outcall

I used to be super paranoid about hotel staff (ie client arrives, and there's a maid in the hallway cleaning the room next to mine!). I've learned to relax a bit. If you are very high traffic, it's best to relocate after a day or two in a given hotel. But you'd be surprised that most staff don't mind much; tips combined with your business go a long way, as long as you don't compromise their reputation with super high traffic or cause complaints from neighboring rooms (beware the Doubletree New Orleans' PAPER THIN walls.)

i like outcalls because i currently do incalls out an office but when i get my own place to decorate i think i would like incalls.

I respectfully disagree with you about hotel staff not minding Ashleigh. It may have been so a few years back but things have changed. With all of the recent focus on prostitution and human trafficking most hotel/motel staff are now being trained to be very aware of what's going on around them and trained how to spot 'victims'. They are highly encouraged to report it to management, who are in turn encouraged to contact law enforcement if there is any suspicious behavior. Things as simple as paying in cash, using the "Do not disturb sign' , and not letting housekeeping in your room are just a few of the things now considered 'suspicious behavior'.

Better than an airport area hotel with maids (or worse) knocking on the door at the wrong time? Originally Posted by giantbourbon

At my place.