The thing is.. I don't have a lot of experience myself, besides lesbian relationships outside of the hobby and we didn't use toys too often. so I was also wondering if any of you ladies had any suggestions for beginners, where I could look, what to progress to.. Etc.
I've recently discovered that I'm interested in the vast world of BDSM (light play, more of a "fairy dom" as they call it) and eventually would like to seek out a mistress for training.. I do not mind having a male dominate but I do prefer women.
I have a fet life and would like to attend some workshops for novice on how to properly whip and bind, stimulate.. Etc. I just don't know where to start and I don't know anyone. :P