Toys, BDSM, Kink

Soo.. I'm extremely curious about toy play for men but I'm not sure if it's anyone's bag here in AR. Lol.

The thing is.. I don't have a lot of experience myself, besides lesbian relationships outside of the hobby and we didn't use toys too often. so I was also wondering if any of you ladies had any suggestions for beginners, where I could look, what to progress to.. Etc.

I've recently discovered that I'm interested in the vast world of BDSM (light play, more of a "fairy dom" as they call it) and eventually would like to seek out a mistress for training.. I do not mind having a male dominate but I do prefer women. I have a fet life and would like to attend some workshops for novice on how to properly whip and bind, stimulate.. Etc. I just don't know where to start and I don't know anyone. :P

Fetlife.com is a good resource to learn and meet others. There are many web sites and books that you can read and learn from as well. It sounds like your saying your a sub, but for the hobby would top from the bottom?

You are in the right place. Be patient. One never knows who is watching and very interested. Stay safe.

I guess I should be more proactive on there.. It's just so big lol that's what I'd like.. Some book and website suggestions.

I would like to be a switch.. I just want to learn the ropes first. But I would prefer to be the dominant hobby wise.

I don't understand "the switch"

If you want to wear a strap on and please a man. Watch porn. See how a man thrusts.
If you look at porn with a girl on girl the damn thing bends because she has not a clue.
Ever see Caddy Shack? Be the ball. Nannnannanana.

Become the tool and grab his hips and thrust. Then thrust again. Smile and tell him he's everything. Grab his trunk and give it a go. The race is on. He is your ticket and all is well. Your hands on his balls or shaft and your breath is in his ear and you're golden.

If you still want help send me a PM.

I guess I should be more proactive on there.. It's just so big lol that's what I'd like.. Some book and website suggestions.

I would like to be a switch.. I just want to learn the ropes first. But I would prefer to be the dominant hobby wise. Originally Posted by YourFavFlavor

Dominate in the hobby could be difficult in your location. Arkansas is not going to have many men that want to be dominated imho. On the other hand finding a mistress could happen.

I suggest you elaborate on what you are looking for.

Off topic. Has anyone told you your legs are to kill for?

I share the same opinion, that's why when you suggested I post here.. I figured it would be worth a try.. maybe hobbyist in a state I'll be traveling to would be interested.. as well as the few here in AR. I would like to find a mistress here though to train me. You don't have to be a sub first before being a dom but I feel it'd help me personally..

Yes, they have! It's part of how I hypnotize you..once I wrap them around you. thank you!

Grrrrrrrrr!