Ok this is a review but not of a lady. Let's face it even if we are not out there going bare HIV is still a very real risk, condoms break, you hook up with a non-provider etc. Remember it only takes one time to get it. Since knowing is half the battle I found an at home HIV test kit at CVS that is do it yourself, no needles (it's an oral swab) and you get the results in 20 mins or so. And all this can be done in the privacy of your own home. It even came with a plain heavy non-transparent plastic bad to throw everything away in. The only drawback is it requires a 3 month wait time between taking the test and the "risk event" so you would be on the shelf for 90 days since it takes that long for the anti-bodies to show up. $40 bucks some alone time on a lunch break and you know you are clean. No doctor visits, no needles and nothing comes back like the insurance info or the results in the mail.
But always stay safe and have fun.