Question for the providers out there. What are some things that a new client can do to make a session go really well? I think that there are the basics, which should never be overlooked, include hygiene, manners, promptness, common courtesy, and not being a dickhead. But, beyond that, what can a client do (or not do) in order to make a session go really well for both the client and provider? What sorts of things (material or otherwise) do you appreciate, and what sets one client above others? I'd appreciate your thoughts. Thanks!
Originally Posted by StrokinFiend
If I may be forgiven for interjecting a negative note, so much depends on the moral character of the lady concerned. A client can extend all courtesy, offer dinner, cook dinner, bring a beautiful present and be the soul of sensitivity, and yet be mercilessly cheated and stolen from in ways that defeat all logic after conversation to soothe a lot of pain on the part of the provider.
Therefore, it might seem the more than one provider might be feeling little care for the client, no matter how long the relationship has been. Money seems to be the only element that counts, in the final analysis. I have long pondered on the nature of redemptive exchange being an arrant idiot all my life, seeking fidelity and other emotions from institutions and persons quite unwilling and unable to reciprocate.
What you are asking is how to melt someone heart by a series of material and non-material gestures that will allow her to bestow a modicum of affection and caring that would make your time together memorable. "Smoothly" has that connotation to me, the sense of being made to feel special. Some providers have that gift and are listed on many people's top five All Time Favorites. Please consult these lists and see if any of them might suit your needs. Good service merits praise and rewards. Others are by nature exceedingly dishonest; I know some and hesitate to out them because it is my word against another's livelihood.