Why Book The Appointment Then Call & Not Show Up

Good Evening Arkansas. I love to travel and see different places so I decided to check out Texarkana first. I am not sure why hobbiest with 39 Okays on p411 and over 10 reviews would book an appointment, text me "I am here", talk to me on the phone then just not come up to the room. No Return Text, No Return PM. I am lost for words.. I really hope the other hobbiest here are not like this guy!!!
BabyDallass's Avatar
Sorry that happened to you love. That normally doesn't happen, hopefully he has a good excuse. Our guys here are pretty reliable, you can't judge all of them by one bad seed. I hope your trip gets better and you enjoy Arkansas!
TestSpin's Avatar
What Baby Dallass said! Sorry it happened to you. I think that type situation is much more common when someone is either inexperienced or is taking a chance on an unknown from Backpage, where they get to the parking lot and see something that spooks them (like LE or management). That's VERY unusual for a veteran hobbyist to skip out like that on an eccie provider like you with such a long list of YES recommendations. Once he starts thinking with his big head, hopefully he'll contact you and give a good excuse or make it right. Otherwise, give him hell in the powder room. Please don't let this deter you from visiting ... or from extending your visit to Central Arkansas
Danielle Reid's Avatar
Maybe he saw something that freaked him out. I know I had one guy cancel on me in the parking lot because there were black guys hanging around my room door. I told them to piss off but they kept flocking back. Guess it's because my room was so close to the stairwell.

I also had a guy flake out because he saw a cop drive down the road.

Maybe he has a good (or paranoid) excuse. Hopefully it can get cleared up. If not, there are plenty of reliable men who would love to see you
What Baby Dallass said! Sorry it happened to you. I think that type situation is much more common when someone is either inexperienced or is taking a chance on an unknown from Backpage, where they get to the parking lot and see something that spooks them (like LE or management). That's VERY unusual for a veteran hobbyist to skip out like that on an eccie provider like you with such a long list of YES recommendations. Once he starts thinking with his big head, hopefully he'll contact you and give a good excuse or make it right. Otherwise, give him hell in the powder room. Please don't let this deter you from visiting ... or from extending your visit to Central Arkansas Originally Posted by TestSpin
I don't know this is the 2nd time this has happened since I have been a provider. I am not on backpage at the moment and no management. I am on p411 and I have 10 plus yes recommendation reviews
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I completely agree that you come across as a rock solid, legit, known provider and am surprised that a hobbyist with his credentials would bail out on a well-known provider after he made it to the parking lot. Then again, as MB said, different guys have different levels of comfort/paranoia, and we don't know whether he saw something in the parking lot that might have spooked him. Hopefully he will contact you to clear it up. If not, give him hell. Hopefully it will be a LONG time before you experience that for a third time. Again, sorry it happened to you ... and VERY sorry it happened to you in Arkansas.

Would it be wrong of me to hope that the guy lived on the Texas side of the border?