Thunder only happens when its raining

Was listening to a song and the words just hit me like a ton of bricks

Thunder only happens when its raining.....

Players only love you when their playing......

Have you ever met someone either in the hobby or out and while you are giving them what they want they seem to say they love you or really want to be with you. But once you stop giving them what they want, mainly money or whatever, the situation changes?????? The love they profess to you is empty love.

Oh well "C'est la vie. Live and learn even at my age!!!!!!!!!!

Elgato69

damn your how old and you just now figured that out....lol....

It's a harsh cold reality of getting kicked in the balls. It does indeed suck, man.

It's why I prefer hobby relationships over civvie relationships....

It sounds like a good time for you to read your own signature line again Gato.

I'm pretty sure fleetwood MAC didn't spell player with a z

I have in my many years of hobbying had two ladies after the official session decided that they wanted to just spend time, spending the night without benefits. I still see one of these ladies accasionally and while it is always hobby business (at my insistance) we often spend additional time together.

The song describes the rule, to which there are exceptions.

damn your how old and you just now figured that out....lol.... Originally Posted by michaelj

I don't think it's a matter of "just" figuring it out. It's probably more of a "just" thought about it again.

Sometimes we would like to be more optimistic about people's behavior. However, the moment we do that, reality slaps back to our cynicism.

Whenever you find yourself thinking "this time it's different", it's time for a little talk with yourself (or a cold shower).

Was listening to a song and the words just hit me like a ton of bricks

Thunder only happens when its raining.....

Players only love you when their playing......

Have you ever met someone either in the hobby or out and while you are giving them what they want they seem to say they love you or really want to be with you. But once you stop giving them what they want, mainly money or whatever, the situation changes?????? The love they profess to you is empty love. Originally Posted by Elgato69

That is a great song. That group was a great group.

I can relate. I have been down that road a few times myself. It is a cold hard lesson, to be sure.

Ohh wow/:

The hobby breaks hearts...?

Didn't know that!


I just recently had my heart broken. I guess you can say I was emotionally involved with this person, but he didn't understand my priorities in life. I mean, I guess romance could occupy a part of my life, but not MY ENTIRE LIFE.

Regardless of what he did, or did not do, I wish him the best and hopefully he can find someone who can make romance their priority.

If you put yourself out there, your going to experience a heartbreak from time to time. I think the most important thing is what you learn from it. In my case it's not to try to be anyone's everything...you'll both end up disappointed.

In my case it's not to try to be anyone's everything...you'll both end up disappointed. Originally Posted by biggtexxx

So trueee!!!!