Research your intended thoroughly. Tproviders are a small subset of the hobby, and good ones are even rarer. I have never had a bad experience with a Tprovider. Research is the main reason for this. Luck is a close second.
Know what sort of experience you are looking for and find a match if you can. I've heard it joked that greek is always on the menu with Tproviders, but it really isn't. Some are oral only, some are strictly tops, some are bottoms, some are both, about half the ones I've seen make you chose one or the other. Some can't cum or even get hard due to hormones. If the gal is on tour, she will likely be trying not to cum so that she can get hard for more than one session. So if you are looking for a pop from her, probably a good idea to stay with local talent.
Understandably a majority seem to be very insecure. Earnest compliments will go a long way to making a session more pleasurable. And of course being able to tell them what you want helps. While this is the case for any hobby encounter, the situation here is quite a bit more complex with various elephants scattered about the room the largest of them being what you are comfortable with.
As for feelings after the first, I'm trying to recall. It was over 10 years ago and a lot of brain cells have been killed by single malt and using my brain's blood supply for the other head. She was a very beautiful Latin lady with nice DDs, a flat stomach, and a great ass. It was a very, very good first time experience and that helped with any thoughts of, "What the fuck did I just do?!?"
Then again, I am a bit of a sociopath, and I simply do not do guilt or give a shit what others think. I have never regretted taking the plunge. Or being plunged for that matter.
Originally Posted by NadurraDrinker
Agree with Everything he just said,(Me 10years ago age 40) Unfortunately research is hard. Due to the homophobic reaction of most sites, guys are reluctant to do reviews. Make a choice, email her, be honest about your situation, and keep an open mind.I wanted to experience everything, and I did.If she opens the door, and you are attracted, give her a nice kiss. Things will go very well after that. As far as feelings, it was like having your first sexual experiance all over again. Fear( you don't know what to expect) Fear(you don't know what the hell you are doing) but damn your excited too. Afterwards,I had a great time and now my optons got a whole lot greater.