Providers Don't Know What GFE Is!!!

For a few extra bucks providers will offer "GFE", and for that hour you get to snuggle, kiss, and whatever. But is that really the girlfriend experience?
I was recently with a provider that completely redefined the term, which I'll dub UGFE, the Ultimate Girlfriend Experience.
I scheduled a GFE session about a week in advance with the provider, and over the next several days, she called/text, building up the anticipation. I was starting to think we were a couple. She made me feel young and alive with euphoric love & lust feelings. The way you feel when you just start dating someone, and you just can't get them off your mind.
This was an increadable experience, and I challenge any providers to replicate it.

For the details, check out my Shy Shay review:

Her's the link for the review:
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1044556

I have experienced this "UGFE" with other providers a few times, but it is rare.

Sadly, many providers like to think that whatever they are willing to do or like doing is the definition of "GFE". They put "GFE" on their ad or profile, not because they are, but because they know many guys seek that.

It's good when one shows up that can raise the bar (so to speak).

At first I thought it was "Good For Everything", didn't take me long to figure out how wrong I was
I've never had the real GFE experience hobbying.

For a few extra bucks providers will offer "GFE", and for that hour you get to snuggle, kiss, and whatever. But is that really the girlfriend experience?
I was recently with a provider that completely redefined the term, which I'll dub UGFE, the Ultimate Girlfriend Experience.
I scheduled a GFE session about a week in advance with the provider, and over the next several days, she called/text, building up the anticipation. I was starting to think we were a couple. She made me feel young and alive with euphoric love & lust feelings. The way you feel when you just start dating someone, and you just can't get them off your mind.
This was an increadable experience, and I challenge any providers to replicate it.

For the details, check out my Shy Shay review: Originally Posted by Amadeus25

UGFE is rare, very true... BUT, there are guys that seem to forget it's all about business at the end of the day.
So, to the guys that don't get this and go all nuts and mistaking the game for reality... Don't fuck it up for the rest of us!

In defense to all the GFE escorts out there...

"GFE" is in reference to the ACTIVITIES provided during the service which would be similar to that of a girl friend. And during the session, she should have some level of affectionate-ness (new word) towards you to make you feel extra comfortable with her...

If you are wanting a texting buddy to feel like she is your girl friend, I might suggest going the Sugar Baby route, where that sort of activity and engagement is expected.

Here on Eccie, We are ESCORTS, we get paid for **time TOGETHER** Not texting. So it sounds like your expectations are a little bit high for the GFE girls.
You might want to come up with some sort of compensation for the girl if you would like her to text you all the time. Or there are sites for seeking Sugar Babies.

it's great when you find that kind of connection with a provider, enjoy it buddy

In defense to all the GFE escorts out there...

"GFE" is in reference to the ACTIVITIES provided during the service which would be similar to that of a girl friend. And during the session, she should have some level of affectionate-ness (new word) towards you to make you feel extra comfortable with her...

If you are wanting a texting buddy to feel like she is your girl friend, I might suggest going the Sugar Baby route, where that sort of activity and engagement is expected.

Here on Eccie, We are ESCORTS, we get paid for sex.... Not texting. So it sounds like your expectations are a little bit high for the GFE girls.
You might want to come up with some sort of compensation for the girl if you would like her to text you all the time. Or there are sites for seeking Sugar Babies. Originally Posted by Ember Simmers

Well said, Ember!

While there my be discussion as to what activities constitute gfe vs PSE, the distinction refers to those activities during your time together!

I get your point, amadeus, that extra special attention OTC is nice and I personally find I'm more comfortable during a session if a girl has been kind enough to engage in some back and forth via text/email/etc beforehand. In fact, it's a form of my own screening - to get a feel for what may be to come - and can give a sense of familiarity. Don't expect it, but enjoy it when it happens!

Ember... One point of clarification... You don't get paid for sex... Just for your time, right?

Actually, can't remember who has said it (many have), but some would argue that they don't pay you for your time, they pay you to leave when it's done!

Oh man ... You are correct Netx9 ... Paid only for our time TOGETHER!!

Net and Ember, in the words of a famous person on this board...NAILED IT!

Ember,

It's ashame you can't read the review, because it was so much more than just some texting and phone calls.
Here's the point: you have a new provider that just raised the bar on selling the fantasy of GFE to clients, and then there are the "status quoe" providers that sell something substandard, called GFE, because the real thing, or UGFE is too much work.
FYI, sugarbabies are long term arrangements (usually months), not for 4 days.
Also, this is not what I expected at all, but it was just the service she provided.

Netx9- that's what I've always thought... Clients pay providers to leave... Hehe.

To stay on topic... I've never really thought of myself as GFE but I've heard people describe me as just that... I advertise as a YMMV provider as well as a limited GFE experience and I think that is accurate.

I wanna know what GFE is... I want you to show me... Hehe.

I get it... She made you feel like a king... Your experience is not unique, some have added benefits from gals they have a connection with or long time history with, but don't share it on here because it's earned and now setting this bar for an admittedly new provider is going to bring out the dogs, looking for extras from her that she may or may not want to provide. Maybe it was just for you, maybe not, but you've put her in a tough position.

What you're calling "substandard" gfe is the "standard" - don't let your expectations get the best of you and lead you to criticize other providers as a whole because they don't rise to your new found expectations!

I get it... She made you feel like a king... Your experience is not unique, some have added benefits from gals they have a connection with or long time history with, but don't share it on here because it's earned and now setting this bar for an admittedly new provider is going to bring out the dogs, looking for extras from her that she may or may not want to provide. Maybe it was just for you, maybe not, but you've put her in a tough position.

What you're calling "substandard" gfe is the "standard" - don't let your expectations get the best of you and lead you to criticize other providers as a whole because they don't rise to your new found expectations! Originally Posted by Netx9

+1

Also, this is not what I expected at all, but it was just the service she provided. Originally Posted by Amadeus25

And you should enjoy it and revel in it when it happens, but it is definitely the exception and not the rule.

I've been fortunate to have "clicked" with a few very special ladies who, by their choice, have elevated both the levels of communication and the openness of the feelings that they share with me. I value this very highly and do not take advantage of it, for I know how unusual it is.

When it comes to GFE during a session, I've got to have it 100% from the provider or it's not going to work for me, and the more PSE tossed in, the better. But I get it that it's IOP for the purposes of the session and should not be expected before or after that time.