What are the Little Things You Appreciate.

In the hobby I find that its sometimes the little things that keeps me going back. What are some of the little things some of the hobbyist and providers like. for me its.....

1)At a hotel incall...when you are texted the room number she lets you know the door is open so your not standing there....and at a private incall a quick answer

2) good directions to incall or specific location the morning off.
( i know its a safety thing but im not a fan of call when your at this random corner)

3) post session thank you email or text

What are some of yours
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  • 04-28-2014, 11:01 AM
Good directions to incall
Being proactive, such as texting me confirming our appt on the day we plan to meet
WalkerTx's Avatar
Post session bottle of water
Nice manners. I love it when they say yes mam and thank you. Old school I know but that's the way I was brought up. Always have nice manners.
Like Tara mentions - in the hobby or RW, manners never go out of style. Besides attraction, the maturity is why I usually prefer the over 30 crowd.

I like to give my donation in a card with a personal note. Small gifts if there are further meetings. Flowers if the lady is in her home and candles are always popular.

As for receiving - a lady being sweet, not a clock watcher, and just "real" is big for me. I don't want gifts but a place or hanger for my clothes is nice. Aftercare cleanup, like clean towels and even an alcohol wipe is great.
Nice thread
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Like Tara mentions - in the hobby or RW, manners never go out of style. Besides attraction, the maturity is why I usually prefer the over 30 crowd.

I like to give my donation in a card with a personal note. Small gifts if there are further meetings. Flowers if the lady is in her home and candles are always popular.

As for receiving - a lady being sweet, not a clock watcher, and just "real" is big for me. I don't want gifts but a place or hanger for my clothes is nice. Aftercare cleanup, like clean towels and even an alcohol wipe is great.
Originally Posted by EasyLover214
I love the "manners never go out of style" comment. Manners are very very sexy to me. (Awesome thread OP)
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What are some of the little things some of the hobbyist and providers like. Originally Posted by deuceswilld83
Set of perky B-cups?
muffin101's Avatar
Little goodies bags.

DallasRain's Avatar
open mindedness is a big turn on!
Customer service, for me, is invisible. I think when an appointment is over, if I have any thoughts of what should have been, then it could have been better. Unfortunately this can be a double edged sword - you don't know what you don't know.

Little things - water and an easy environment to be relaxed and comfortable. Smiling.
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A few things from my perspective

1. Take the lead BCD, it is really cool.

2. Discretion in attire and comportment. Don't show up with an overnight bag, 4 inch heels, and a short dress to my nice hotel telling the valet and everyone within hearing distance you will be done in a couple of hours. It happened to me. To the contrary, a lady who shows up appropriately dressed, I am much more likely to call again, and again.

3. Great TCB communication, don't keep me guessing if you are going to reply or make our time we scheduled. I hate scheduling in advance and then hearing nothing for days until 2 hours before. Not a good situation. In addition, I run about 20% responses to initial contact. If you are not interested, simply say so. No response is disappointing.

4. An occasional check in or follow up post meeting. I love that.
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I had a lady tell me last week, "You've lost weight." And, yes, I had. About 15 pounds. She'd noticed!

Bringing up things we've talked about in prior sessions -- an indication that, out of all the conversations she's had with all the clients, she remembered at least some of ours.

It's never happened, but I think hearing, "I want you to fuck me now," instead of "Do you want to fuck me now?" would be pretty freakin' awesome.

Intra-session contact with the women I consider my surrogate girlfriends is very important. A text or an e-mail can make my day, make that several days (and guess which of my friends-for-an-hour I'm likely to see next?).

Appreciation for gifts. It doesn't have to be effusive, but it's nice if it is.

I enjoy ladies taking the lead, but every now and then, it'd be nice to hear "whatever you want."
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In no particular order:

Her doing something special for my birthday

Remembering little things from previous encounters

Bottle of water when leaving

Top notch TCB skills

Knows the importance of being discreet
It's nice a young lady wearing something have gave her as a gift.