Conversation

Ladies, how important is a little "get to know you" convo when meeting a guy?
Can you just jump right in as soon as he ( or yourself if it's an outcall) walks through the door?
I find it much more exhilarating to just jump in first with the fuckfest activities, then maybe a little pillow talk in the recharge phase of things.

What's conversation????

Lol IKR?!

I guess I talk to much, I'm much more to the point now after seeing negative responses on some of my reviews about talking. But after the hello, a hug, and I ask how his day/ week has been to get a sense of his personality. After that, all naked and get it on! I personally feel a little more comfortable and personal from a bit of chit chat. I just keep it to a minimum these days! Recharge phase is perfect time for the small talk!

I am kind of like little conv. It seems like a foreplay. I like to search about the provider before the meeting. My favorite part beside those sexy pics in the showcase is the provider's biography. It gives me more sense about the provider's personality. There, a lot of hobbyists like GFE phisically, but I am the one likes GFE emotionally. Well, it's individual preference.

My schedule is usually pretty tight so while I don't mind chatting that isn't what I'm paying for. That's the beauty of the Latin agencies. There is no language barrier with my junk.

It has been mentioned by several that I like to talk & here's the thing about conversation: There are many gentlemen who are just extremely charismatic and talkative themselves, so once they start chatting it's easy for me to fall into due to the fact that this world is a form of the hospitality business & also, I enjoy getting to know people to some extent more or less to get a feel for their personality, like Amy said. That being said, I have met people, said "hello" & then started heating up the kitchen within the first 10 seconds before. I don't have to say a word, if you let me know that you'd prefer not to, it's just that I prefer getting to know people and think that it makes things much more fun. That's why many will attest to the fact that while I may chat on occasion, I also make up for it by adding additional time to compensate for that. Some of my brunch guests love talking as much as I do, so if someone is jumping into the conversation with me, it makes me think they enjoy it as well. I did have one guy visit several times who did not say one word from the time he walked thru the door until the time he walked back out again, it seemed strange, but I figured he was of the opinion of the less said the better, which may indeed be good idea.



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I consider my self relatively sane ;-) and so I like to chat to determine if the woman is batshitcrazy or normal. I won't start until I get a sense of the mental make-up via verbal conversation. Even if she can suck a mean dick I won't come back if I think she's nuts.

I like to talk. Helps me get a better sense of the person sitting before me. But alas, I also prefer longer engagements and building relationships. Not much talking you can do in a 15 or 30 min session. If we already have rapport together or have talked on the phone a few times, that is different. But I don't really have the revolving door approach to my appointments. Some people appreciate it and are enjoy the conversation... others (obviously) are only looking for the most BANG for their buck.

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Well excuse me for trying to save bandwidth, but if you insist....

I just go with the flow....

If we talk we talk, if she gets busy or is receptive to gettin busy then we may talk later.

I've only had conversation affect my time once so it doesn't bother me one way or the other.

I think it is a good thing - my take is that for optimum fun, mind and body have to both be attractive.

Every gentleman is different, and I try to gauge what type of approach each fellow needs: couch with a glass of Jameson or bed with a tube of lube. A lot depends upon how much time a fellow books; if I have someone reserve an hour, I know that there won't be a lot of chit chat. Most of my appointments are multi-hour, and those gents like to get acquainted over a refreshment and let things progress at a natural pace, which makes me relaxed and more comfortable. I'm not strict on timekeeping and rarely have a time-conscious schedule, so if we get to talking too much, I can be flexible and add a wee bit to make sure that the fellow gets his BCD time.

For some gentlemen, the friendly conversation and companionship is JUST as important in the GFE as the main event.