serious question for both ladies and guys

Ok never had this happen before and now it has. I received a pm from a provider wanting to do a outcall to my house this is not the first time she has pmed me early morning even lowering her donation . So today at 130 am she asked to come over from returning to town. We discussed donation and I said sure . Now this provider is also on back page . I give her my address and she calls me and says she on her way . I guess she got here I never seen her and she calls and ask am I having a party I said no . I explained to her I have lots of cars and will be out to get her. I go out side and no body here I call her no answer I text no reply I call 5 times with no answer text no reply . She finally texted back saying it looked creepy to her lol now remember there's been at least 10 providers to my house and never heard anything like that before I mean even providers have brought there children here. Long story short now this provider has my address seen what I have is on back page and who knows who was with her being this time of morning not to many people up . So it could be a scam in my eyes for providers could come back when ur sleeping to steal ur property or even damage it . So how do we men looking for outcall screen these ladies out before we give them our information . Am just glad I have cameras all around but anything could happen and cameras pick it up now pd has to go looking for them just like any robbery . Please give me any feed back on your option I called pd asked to patrol my house and gave plate # that recorded by cameras .
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Stay away from back page and read reviews of tcb.

My that's strange indeed. I wonder how she accessed said providers account in order to pm you in the first place ?

Be safe.

...because she is also an eccie provider I think is what he meant.


She probably really was just thrown off by your amount of vehicles. Just because providers have been comfortable enough to bring their kids to your house( I personally find these ladies more dangerous seems like a lack of respect and boundaries for their children) doesnt mean this lady knows that u are 100% legitimate.

I would have asked about the cars also to be honest.

You ALLOWED providers to bring their children there during a session?! Is that typical of Mocospace and/or backpage? I can't tell who looks worse.....the provider who brought their kids or you for allowing it. No bueno, dude.

I still don't understand the whole story to be honest. A verified provider on the board contacted you through pm. As you stated ... But you believe it wasn't her later on apparently ? Have you contacted her to let her know that her account may have been hacked or let the board know said provider in case other hobbyist have gotten messages from her from a random bp person that was able to hack an eccie members acct ?


I gotta say it's making me say hmmmmm

"Lots of car..." Key words there. If a provider gets a funny feeling, she will walk away. Remember, our safety is constantly an issue for us... If something doesn't seem right, no amount of money SHOULD make us stay... Not saying there is anything wrong with you, love...

Yours...

Camille

Neither party should be bringing kids along -smh

Sorry lots of misunderstanding the provider is on eccie and back page so some folks say stay away from back page ladies so what does it matter if there on both and yes I had made a request a coulpe days ago and she busted pm me today . We all know most ladies are on here for a reason its like a career ladder moco to back page to eccie . I don't care its hard to trust any if them when it comes to just drive by to ur house to see what u have and I believe safety first I don't know if she screened me she never asked for refs .and as far as providers kids here that's only coming over for bbq or going on family date not for sessions lol . Bday party and so on.

Jimmy did you bother to do your "homework" and do your due diligence before giving her your address? Screening goes both ways in my opinion. I don't think the lady in question was "scouting" your place, I think she got freaked out. And as far as backpage goes, I don't feel every lady on there is a scam artist but that's where doing your research comes into play. Take the time and see if the backpage ladies have been discussed in y'all's ML or if she has an account and reviews here on Eccie. Should give you a better idea of who your giving your address out to.

That's why you should have went to bed after you left me jk: ) lol!

On a serious note... Thank goodness you have cameras.

If it was Mya MyLanna your shit is as good as gone. J/K, but who was it? Maybe she has a good rep here and you have no worries.

Lol ur right Jackie what a experience we had together im still in wow land and should of shut it down. Thanks again jackie hope to see u soon. Hollywood I thought I did my screening this provider has left me lots of pm she does have reviews here and is one high dollar hottie . So when she lowered her rate and we talked I asked her if she wanted to come over . I asked her when she got here to call I would come out and get her I do have a big front yard so I always cask that from any lady that way they feel safe and at that time they feel uncomfortable they can leave . I have never had any problems with this screening for myself. When she arrived she did call asked if I was having a party I stayed no and explained I just have lots of 2 trucks 3 cars to be honesty lol said ill be right out to get her it takes me 1 min to get outside from my bedroom cus I timed it lol . When I get outside no one there am thinking maybe she had to turn around . Walked to street and no headlights or cars . Ok now am freaking out I call her no answer text no answer over and over with no reply . Walking back to front door noticed my garage door open so now my mind wondering was she by herself how long has she been at side my house what is she doing in the streets at 3am not much good if far as I know going on at that time . I lost time after spending the evening with jackie watching spurs game right Jackie lol. Any way mayb am over reacting but as a courteous to me she could of answered my call and say I don't feel save and leave it at that . If I was to go to a provider in call and I didn't feel safe I would at least call and let the provider know . So I had to play security guard all morning not knowing who she is and not knowing is she coming back for something she saw and wanted that's all . I live n quit north east neighborhood and no body has had any problems all are retired military and don't want to invite bad apples out here js

Thats tough man. I dont believe id ever to be at a point whereas i would give a provider my home addy, especially one i havent spent a considerable amount of time with... and even then, I dont know if i could do it.

That said - have you PMd or sent another text? Maybe tell her about this thread so shell know youre concerned and not "TX Chainsaw Jimmy". May be enough to open the lines of communication.

Yes I texted and called no reply. Let me add this to mayb everyone can understand my concern. Every since I added my concern about a certain hippy guy that Leo posted a alert on and was helping ladies set him up cus he had hurt and shorted some of my lady friends I have been threaten over and over saying I fucked with the wrong person he will find out where I live going to ruin my life he said he was going to put bad things about me on some site dirty.com and so on . So when this happened it crossed my mind that mayb this provider likes this crazy person and that's why she has been leaving me pm every day hell I don't know . Can't trust everybody and this was his way to find out whete I live u can't never tell what he is capable of lol so that's what my real fear was and would expect any lady as a courteous to call me and explain what happened. I remember last year I was watching news and on crime stoppers there was a provider on camera that had been to my house many times wonderful person and would of never thought in my wildest dreams she would be involved in that . So really we don't know and don't ask about the things they do on the side and guys on here say stay away from back page how when there advertising on both