Question from a relatively new hobbyist..

Howdy everyone,
I am pretty new to the whole hobbying scene, and as of tonight I have finally seen my second independent provider which means I have references and can start exploring many of the wonderful ladies in ECCIE land! My question is, how do I go about using them as references? Is there some etiquette in which I should contact them first to let them know that someone will be calling, and to remind them about our session in case they forgot about me and my sub-par love making skills? Do I give out their phone number, e-mail address or website? These may seem like, and to many probably are, dumb questions, but like I said, there is not really a hobbying manual I have come across yet to explain these things! Some simple tips and advice for this newbie will be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance, and please don't flame me too badly!
-Marcus

Congrats, don't wear it out lol.
Just ask each provider if they will be a reference, if they are ok with it, then just pm them when you are being screened by a new provider so they know to expect it. I always provide an email and or phone # to speed the screening process along.
Have fun

They aren't stupid questions.. all welcome to eccie...

As a provider I like a heads up for references.. not bc I don't remember but because its polite. Just call and ask the ladies if they mind if you use them for a reference. Most will be fine with it. Ask her if she prefers contact my phone or email and go with what her wishes are.

Good luck in your hobbying and wishing you a fun time playing

Valuable information. Another good rule of thumb is to not give out any contact information for your references that isn't publicly available without their permission.

Guys (and gal) thanks for the information! That is what I was looking for.
-Mark

You should ask them if they would mind providing references and if they belong to any other sites. I personally dont mind if girls call me directly some providers prefer a pm. Have fun and be good or if you are going to be bad be really good at it

I'm now in the same boat you are in with the finding of new references. The refs I did have are from previous site and not known providers here or were either seen through ms Debbie. Hope it works out for you.

Staff Edit JJ. Spam.

Never mind.

Goddamnit, Rick! Ya got me.

I am willing to provide references, that's never an issue. I've only had a few gents email or text me though and ask.

My favorite emails for first contacts go like this...

Hi Tracy, I love xyz about your posts or pics. My name is so and so, I look like this, around this age, work in this field. I would like to be screened for a future potential meeting... I've seen so and so, so and so 2, and so and so 3. Also I have p411 and my contact info is xlkjkajkladf on that site. My cell is 555-5555 and email is joeblowwantstofuck@whatever.co m

That is perfect to me. I have all the info I need to start you off on screening and when they come like this, it's faster.

Hope that helps!

WOW! Who went looking back to 2010????

It was a spam bump, and Altbier and Tracy got burned. LOL

Folks might want to remember to check the posting date of Post #1 on a thread before diving in.

WOW! Who went looking back to 2010???? Originally Posted by dakota123

Almost got caught responding but then noticed the op

BTW Dakota love the new avatar stunning as always!!