I totally understand providers desire to require clients have a couple of OK's. Help's prove he has at least the bare bones ability to be civil and well behaved with the ladies.
That said, I've been seeing more and more requirements for three, and I saw one today needing 5. What does 5 get you? You are worried that he could maintain the Dr Jekyl facade for three providers, but you're sure that Mr. Hyde will rear his head by 5?
And whats with the requirement that the OK's have to be in the last six months or whatever time frame? Concerned that if we are not getting the kitty on a regular basis we will become uncivil? Or maybe in the interim we changed careers and went thru the police academy?