Dont use fb.
If you wanna chat, quickly...text messages?
Or maybe yahoo messenger and sites of the sort.
Fb chat works quickly, but how many gentlemen would really be ok with using their "rw" fb profile to srnd a message, to make it worthwhile? How many gents have "seperate" fb accounts just for hobbying? ...the number is probably even smaller.
Twitter may be a better alternative to FB... i have no idea how it works or the benefits, though. I just see more ladies have twitter accounts vs fb
Do you have a website? Or blog?
You can upload pix as freely as you like, blog to give readers a feel for your personality, you coukd even have a members only area.
Good luck!!!