It may not be fair.
But getting into online pissing matches has never worked out well for any female poster on the boards that I can recall.
When a guy makes a call or sends a PM to a lady the majority of ladies MIGHT check references but other than look at his profile and see the number of reviews he wrote there are very few ladies that care much more than wanting to know the guy is safe and known to pay.
But guys use the board for it's design. They use the search feature.
I understand the validity to the argument that even poor publicity generates an increase in business. I also know it is short lived but the words posted here are forever.
Not too many guys click that button looking for a drama queen or a fearless fighter that will trade barbs with a guy.
When the guy that joined the board last week sees an ad and types your name in and sees threads where you are coming off as a royal bitch you lose a client.
When the guy that joined the board last week sees an ad and types your name in and sees threads where your health is being discussed you lose a client
When the guy that joined the board last week sees an ad and types your name in and sees threads where you are accused of having poor BCD you lose a client
When the guy that joined the board last week sees an ad and types your name in and sees threads where you are accused of NCNS you lose a client
When the guy that joined the board last week sees an ad and types your name in and sees threads where you are center of controversy over an outing or the lack of discretion with client's information..... you lose a client...
You may not lose EVERY client..... There are some that look at your pics and dial your number with one hand... dick in the other....
I have been one that has been accused of being controversial,an asshole, a misogynist and a stream of other names by men and women on these boards for 14 of the 15 years I have been posting.... I know many of the guys like me with similar reputations.
It did not stop me from writing 100s of reviews.... It has never stopped me from seeing a lady I wanted to see..... and it did not stop me from seeing a lady that swore she would never see Whispers.....
It does not stop others like me....
Why?
I am safe.
I am a gentleman.
I have no strange requests.
I have money.
I pay what is owed.
That is all the vast majority of providers truly care about when a guy wants to see them and I can provide the names of multiple ladies that will verfy exactly that about me if I want to......
Although I've been around all these years..... very few ladies have ever known more than that about me.....
Those of you that READ and/or Participate in the forums are a huge minority. It's been that way for 15 years.....
You are not going to be the first one that thinks she is strong enough to overcome it....
You are not going to be the first one to wonder later where your popularity went.....
Then again..... If a guy logs in and searches for a Drama Queen.... maybe you can fill that niche....



